Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I guess I shouldve mentioned Im looking only for dramas. Nevertheless thanks for the list as I see many I should watch.bradd80 said:Scarface (tony montana dies, but not without a fight fvck yeah)
American beauty (just when Kevin spacey basically tell everyone to go fvck themselves and starts to enjoy life on his terms, he's shot in the head)
psycho (that chick when she dies in the shower scene)
the decaprio in both titanic and the departed
gran torino (eastwood dies at the end so his neighborhood can live in peace)
saving private ryan (tom hanks dies after giving private ryan a bit of advice)
300 (all the Greek soldiers die)
black swan
million dollar baby
Alien 3
Gladiator (the general/gladiator maximus - played by Russell crowe - is stabbed to death by the emperor)
the matrix (at the end of the third movie, neo sacrifices himself to save humanity)
V for Vendetta
Cool Hand Luke ("What we've got here, is a failure to communicate")
blair witch project (all 3 kids die at the end in the building)
the shining (jack freezes to death while trying to hunt down his son)
reservoir dogs (everyone dies in the end)
sixth sense
the boy in the striped pyjamas
the others (the mother smothered her kids with a pillow and shot herself in the head with a rifle)
OP, there's actually quite a few
Bible_Belt said:I am Legend - although there was a director's cut ending where everybody lived.
In the original script for Natural Born Killers, both Mickey and Mallory die at the end, killed by the Owen guy who helps them escape prison. They left the foreshadowing scenes in the movie though.
Bruce Willis dies at the end of Armageddon. Tom Cruise dies at the end of Oblivion. Arnie dies at the end of Christine.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Will check those out, loved "Oldboy" 2003 version.taiyuu_otoko said:check out some of the Korean thrillers / horror movies on Netflix.
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