"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Movies that made a DJ tear up like a lil b1tch-boy.

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I didn't cry, but I remember feeling sentimental at the carbonite scene in "Empire Strikes Back."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Boy oh boy, time to show our sensitive side lol.

I don't think I've ever cried as hard as I did at the end of 'Bridges of Madison County'. The way Clint Eastwood stood there in the rain, just looking at her... Very powerful stuff.

The scene in 'Bloodsport' where Van Damme screams out loud after Chong Li threw the white powder in his eyes. The scene never affected me in this way before, but I happened to see it shortly after breaking up with my ex.
Van Damme was giving it all he got, but his efforts were totally useless coz his eyes were blinded. It was all so unfair, but there was absolutely nothing he could do about his situation and he knew it...so he screamed out loud, expressing his despair. I felt exactly the same...
 

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End of watch - had some sad ass part at the end :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Titanic , obviously. No no , I'm just kidding.:crackup:




Seriously though , Click - with Adam Sandler.

One of the final scenes where the movie reached its top point - and a couple before that. Although the idea of the film is displayed in a comedic sense , the point of it is really deeply inspiring.

It's basically about a guy who fast-forwards through his life and makes some wrong decisions out of ignorance.He ends up severely regretting it when it's already too late. Gives you a lot to think about. Specially about the cute girl you didn't say hi to today , or the other opportunity you missed for whatever reason.
 

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I think I almost teared up once watching Hard Boiled cause I was totally trashed.
 

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I guess the end of Schindler's List was pretty sad.

Also there was this one Twilight Zone episode about a guy who tries to go back to his childhood but it is futile; I remember that kind of broke me up.
 

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Metal Gear Solid 4. Its a video game but it had so many cut scenes it might as well had been a movie. It got pretty damn heart wrenching at the end.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Bat said:
This clip tears me up:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qi4QJReVWhE

The acting is phenomenal. The backstory of their friendship is amazing too.

I remember this movie, that scene took a turn from the movie, because the movie was a comedy before that point

and that dude that died, wasn't even a drug user, he was against drugs, it was a good movie though.
 

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Can't remember crying during a movie, maybe once or twice during a tv show, a death hits close to home.

But that rape scene Lust Caution...too hot. Made me want act it out with a hot Chinese girl I was with a while ago. Needless to say she wasn't too impressed.
 

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Ladies, let's all have a group hug and get on with the business that is before us.
 

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I wouldn't say I cried, but the most emotional scene I've ever watched believe it or not was Mufasa's death in Lion King.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah, scenes like the end of Gladiator - well-acted - get me to tear up every time.

Well, and, ever since my mother died of cancer, I can't watch similar scenes in movies, i.e. parents dying on their kids in general. Tears me up.
 

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No joke, mib 3...where J watches his dad die in past. Watched that a few months after my dad died, was bawling like a baby in the theater.
 

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Never cried, but have come real close, don't really like watching dogs go.

Scene in I Am Legend with the dog, same name as my old pup so I got emotional.

Marley and Me, pretty damn sad at the end too.

Gunner
 

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The end of Terminator 2 when they lower Arnold into the molten steel.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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