"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Movie/TV with characters that are great examples of DJ qualities

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So i was watching a show the other day, The Vampire Diaries( yes, i know, twilight on tv), and i came across a character in the show, Damien, who has many qualities that would be beneficial to emulate when interacting with women(actually people in general). \

I then came up with a potentially brilliant idea of making a thread(maybe a sticky?) of just great characters to watch/emulate.

i feel that although it is great to have someone say: "be c&f" or "have a laidback attitude", it would be even better if we had a thread that would show you an example of it, so people could see it in action( im a visual learner, so seeing it helps me)

i'l give some examples:

strong confidence, speech, basically everything: Damien- Vampire diaries
Great C&F: Tom Cruise- Top Gun

what do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Johnny Bravo although the producers makes him fail.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok

All the men that have been mentioned or will be mentioned have a mission in life & nothing else matters

You shouldn’t be looking for a character for you to aspire to be

If you are, you have no mission

Every time you watch TV or play computer games to aspire to be the hero character, is equivalent to masturbation

You lack what the hero has, so then you masturbate by watching real hero’s & try to fill in the void that is lacking in your life.

Just like masturbating with your hand, you are filling an empty void, a woman!!!

You fill in the void of fvcking your hand instead of fvcking a woman

You fill in the void of watching men on a mission instead of being a man on a mission
 
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