"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Movie/TV with characters that are great examples of DJ qualities

EBickford

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So i was watching a show the other day, The Vampire Diaries( yes, i know, twilight on tv), and i came across a character in the show, Damien, who has many qualities that would be beneficial to emulate when interacting with women(actually people in general). \

I then came up with a potentially brilliant idea of making a thread(maybe a sticky?) of just great characters to watch/emulate.

i feel that although it is great to have someone say: "be c&f" or "have a laidback attitude", it would be even better if we had a thread that would show you an example of it, so people could see it in action( im a visual learner, so seeing it helps me)

i'l give some examples:

strong confidence, speech, basically everything: Damien- Vampire diaries
Great C&F: Tom Cruise- Top Gun

what do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Johnny Bravo although the producers makes him fail.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok

All the men that have been mentioned or will be mentioned have a mission in life & nothing else matters

You shouldn’t be looking for a character for you to aspire to be

If you are, you have no mission

Every time you watch TV or play computer games to aspire to be the hero character, is equivalent to masturbation

You lack what the hero has, so then you masturbate by watching real hero’s & try to fill in the void that is lacking in your life.

Just like masturbating with your hand, you are filling an empty void, a woman!!!

You fill in the void of fvcking your hand instead of fvcking a woman

You fill in the void of watching men on a mission instead of being a man on a mission
 
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