"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Moved to a small town :(

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I don't know if this is supposed to be posted here or in Anything Else, but I need help people :(

Just when everything was going more then great with the dating and clubbing and all that I had to move. I am in this small town now, it's unbelievable. Since I don't have a car I can't drive out to the big city. I can't take public transport either cause they stop working after midnight, and only restart at 7am or something, that's way too late if I wanne go out on a regular base. Is anybody else in this sort of situation ? How do you have a descent social life in these, at first sight, forget-pits ? I could go out of course, to the big city nearby, using public transport cause it's not THAT nearby. But then I would be extremely limited. And taking the underground around midnight is suicide appatrently, crime is waaay up there. Getting a car would take me a year, and I'm not really planning on living like a monk for the next year.

Anyone any idea ? I'm sure some of you live(d) in this sort of situation before, what did you do ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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is your town so small there are no clubs?
 

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0 clubs, plenty of old people bars though. I counted at least 6 around the FRIGGIN CHURCH :(
 

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Internet hookups perhaps?
Small town are the best for hookups,there is nothing to do but fuk!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Internet hookups, I'd rather shoot myself in the left nut !

I've been walking and running through this sit ass town all day and night, I think it's an old people's town or something lol. How ****ed am I :( I'll just have to wait for the granddaughters to come visit grandpa then :(
 

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haha :D
Now that I think of it, it does remind me of that movie :D

But I found the solution, well I figured one out. Find at least one person about my age that HAS a car. Become friends, and have myself a brand new taxi :)
 
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