Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
I moved to a new city columbus, ohio for new gig
looking to make friends and meet people
any ideas fellas.
looking to make friends and meet people
any ideas fellas.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Moved to a new city for a new job!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Probably the easiest way is to talk to your coworkers. Are they the same age range as you? Are they much older than you? If they are older, ask them about the city and where all the social hotspots are. If they are the same age you may be able to make some friends.
Also, you might want to try online dating. I remember I used to see a lot of profiles of people who moved to a new city and had to start over similar to yourself. It's worth a try. It's not like you will lose much if you don't find anything.
Just some suggestions. You have to be creative
Also, you might want to try online dating. I remember I used to see a lot of profiles of people who moved to a new city and had to start over similar to yourself. It's worth a try. It's not like you will lose much if you don't find anything.
Just some suggestions. You have to be creative
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
most of my coworkers are very older than me
and they are all married
I spotted a women who is single, for the sake of playing mind games she did played mind game with me once, than I started to ignore her, i will just say hi to her.
and they are all married
I spotted a women who is single, for the sake of playing mind games she did played mind game with me once, than I started to ignore her, i will just say hi to her.
Start taking salsa lessons. No matter where you go if you can dance you will meet new people and make new friends. And of course girls at salsa clubs are smoking hot.
This will not only help you now but in the future if you were to move again. If you can dance you can meet people no matter where you move.
This will not only help you now but in the future if you were to move again. If you can dance you can meet people no matter where you move.