Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
I moved to a new city columbus, ohio for new gig
looking to make friends and meet people
any ideas fellas.
looking to make friends and meet people
any ideas fellas.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Moved to a new city for a new job!
- Thread starter Maximummax
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Probably the easiest way is to talk to your coworkers. Are they the same age range as you? Are they much older than you? If they are older, ask them about the city and where all the social hotspots are. If they are the same age you may be able to make some friends.
Also, you might want to try online dating. I remember I used to see a lot of profiles of people who moved to a new city and had to start over similar to yourself. It's worth a try. It's not like you will lose much if you don't find anything.
Just some suggestions. You have to be creative
Also, you might want to try online dating. I remember I used to see a lot of profiles of people who moved to a new city and had to start over similar to yourself. It's worth a try. It's not like you will lose much if you don't find anything.
Just some suggestions. You have to be creative
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
most of my coworkers are very older than me
and they are all married
I spotted a women who is single, for the sake of playing mind games she did played mind game with me once, than I started to ignore her, i will just say hi to her.
and they are all married
I spotted a women who is single, for the sake of playing mind games she did played mind game with me once, than I started to ignore her, i will just say hi to her.
Start taking salsa lessons. No matter where you go if you can dance you will meet new people and make new friends. And of course girls at salsa clubs are smoking hot.
This will not only help you now but in the future if you were to move again. If you can dance you can meet people no matter where you move.
This will not only help you now but in the future if you were to move again. If you can dance you can meet people no matter where you move.