"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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moved on? like for reals?

Chev.Chelios

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Umm, something weird happened last night. Been going through the hardest 18 months of my life.
constant depression, heartbrokeness, not ashamed to admit ive been the biggest blubber of crybaby mess etc..

I dreamt my ex walked up to me in my dream, it was very short, very vivid..
I think her loser friends i despise were behind her..
I saw an engagement ring on her left hand..
She said she was marrying this guy shes been seeing..
and that shes pregnant..


Then it ended.. instantly.

woke up pissed.. blah
This breakup experience was epic.

Just earlier i googled the dream, and found this. Now im not sure how accurate these dream interpretations are.. but fvck it im believing this like god wrote it with his beautiful glorious hand lol

To dream that your ex-girlfriend is pregnant depends if the baby is yours or not. . If the baby is not yours, then it means that you have fully accepted that the relationship is over. You still care for her even though the two of you are no longer together.

**** Insert rocky theme song here..****

What do you guys think of this? umm..
Did i really just finaly let go of my cvnt ex?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The short answer no. I don't know your back story but 18 months is a long time to still be pineing for anyone. Just you calling her a cvnt tells me there might still some anger and that's emotion driven. When you truly let go you will be indifferent to her like passing any stranger on the street. It all depends on how far you let the worms eat into your brain.

But it seems like your on the rite path.
 

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I'm not going to get involved in the dream interpretation. I'm also not going to say just get over it, because clearly she scarred you deeply. I can help you with the depression, assuming its not clinical. Here's a short list of things I want you to do:

1. Start working out 4 days a week

2. Try to eat healthier.

3. Start a conversation with 3 girls a day

4. Start reading before bed some reccomendations are
(A guide to the good life by William Irivine , Mastery, 48 laws of power, Art of seduction all by Robert Green, The Power of Now by Eckhart Rolls)

5. Get a makeover, symbolic of a new you. A new haircut(Be bold. A hairstyle you have never had but always wanted), a new cologne, a few new outfits. New sneakers.
(H&M, Gap & Old Navy are great to be trendy on a budget.)
Some cheap cologne reccomendations are
(Liz Claibourne Curve, Nautica Voyage & Davidoff Cool Water.)



You need to build up some cognitive dissonance to get your life back.

30 days of this and you will be on your way to:
-A better body
-Should be dating at least one girl
-Have some great new perspectives
-Look, feel & smell better than you have in quite some time.
 
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