"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Moved on, but still think about it often

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Hello,

I've made a topic a while ago http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/scary-kind-of-love.232623/ Where I opened up about a woman I've met 3.5 years ago, and how hooked I got to her, and the far measures I took whilst being with her. So about a month ago I decided to come to my senses and delete her off of my social media, facebook, insta & snap, etc. She texted me a week later asking me whats up with deleting her and saying "What a mature way to end a friendship". I sent her a final page and a half(With my emotional ass) text in response, I laid it all on the table for her, told her everything, even told her that I'm not the type to mess with fake women, or low self-esteem women who keep those men who cater to them around just to satisfy their personalities, ended the text with "I thought you were something else, have a good life". Then blocked the number. Now this was the wisest decision I've made in regards to the fiasco. I've been traveling a lot recently to clear my mind, I was in Tokyo last week and all of a sudden I got a notification, she added me back on snapchat, I didn't accept her, until last night, I decided to accept her since I find myself thinking about her often, last time we saw eachother was last Friday at a club, where she was working, and I was with a company of 2 lovely women, she eyed me when she walked across, but I didn't really care, at all.

What is the wise thing to do here? I know it was a mistake adding her back, this isn't your lovey dovey 'She's something else' story, she is a typical by all means, it's just that why do I feel so in touch with a person who's very far away and who's not even real.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She was a one night stand and nothing more.

You really need to get out there and date more women. When you start getting used to the revolving door of women, it's much easier to get over the ones that don't stick around. If a woman in my life disappears after 2 months, she gets about a day of "mourning" before I'm done thinking about her.

When you KNOW you can move on and get more women, the temporary ones end up having very little importance in your life. Time and experience will make her disappear.
 

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She was a one night stand and nothing more.

You really need to get out there and date more women. When you start getting used to the revolving door of women, it's much easier to get over the ones that don't stick around. If a woman in my life disappears after 2 months, she gets about a day of "mourning" before I'm done thinking about her.

When you KNOW you can move on and get more women, the temporary ones end up having very little importance in your life. Time and experience will make her disappear.
She was never a one night stand, in fact I've met a lot of women since then, and none attracted me the way she did, get me?
 
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