"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Moved on, but still think about it often

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Hello,

I've made a topic a while ago http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/scary-kind-of-love.232623/ Where I opened up about a woman I've met 3.5 years ago, and how hooked I got to her, and the far measures I took whilst being with her. So about a month ago I decided to come to my senses and delete her off of my social media, facebook, insta & snap, etc. She texted me a week later asking me whats up with deleting her and saying "What a mature way to end a friendship". I sent her a final page and a half(With my emotional ass) text in response, I laid it all on the table for her, told her everything, even told her that I'm not the type to mess with fake women, or low self-esteem women who keep those men who cater to them around just to satisfy their personalities, ended the text with "I thought you were something else, have a good life". Then blocked the number. Now this was the wisest decision I've made in regards to the fiasco. I've been traveling a lot recently to clear my mind, I was in Tokyo last week and all of a sudden I got a notification, she added me back on snapchat, I didn't accept her, until last night, I decided to accept her since I find myself thinking about her often, last time we saw eachother was last Friday at a club, where she was working, and I was with a company of 2 lovely women, she eyed me when she walked across, but I didn't really care, at all.

What is the wise thing to do here? I know it was a mistake adding her back, this isn't your lovey dovey 'She's something else' story, she is a typical by all means, it's just that why do I feel so in touch with a person who's very far away and who's not even real.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She was a one night stand and nothing more.

You really need to get out there and date more women. When you start getting used to the revolving door of women, it's much easier to get over the ones that don't stick around. If a woman in my life disappears after 2 months, she gets about a day of "mourning" before I'm done thinking about her.

When you KNOW you can move on and get more women, the temporary ones end up having very little importance in your life. Time and experience will make her disappear.
 

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She was a one night stand and nothing more.

You really need to get out there and date more women. When you start getting used to the revolving door of women, it's much easier to get over the ones that don't stick around. If a woman in my life disappears after 2 months, she gets about a day of "mourning" before I'm done thinking about her.

When you KNOW you can move on and get more women, the temporary ones end up having very little importance in your life. Time and experience will make her disappear.
She was never a one night stand, in fact I've met a lot of women since then, and none attracted me the way she did, get me?
 
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