"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zerotwoonenine

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guys have you ever had that one girl that you tried to Dj, you two got off to a good start, but then you sort of screwed up and now you are friends with her but cant get any closer that that?? i know that every tip says move on in that situation but what happens if you still like her?? u guys got any good ways to move on??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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shydude

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You ask her out AGAIN. If she says NO, then you move on, If she says YES, the you move on with her. If she says lets be friends, then you move on, if she says lets just be lovers, then you move on with her, if she says she has a boyfriend, then you move on without her, if she says she is not into relationships thn you move on without her, if she says her mom is not letting her date anyone, then you move on without her. Dont mess with one women, couse there are millions out there waiting for you, and you pick one that you will die with.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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hey man i am serior enough to know all the rules of the game. She has a boy friend, but i dont konw whether or should wait or not. In the mean time i will be looking for replacements.
Thanks for the help anyways
 
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