"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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move on

Zerotwoonenine

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guys have you ever had that one girl that you tried to Dj, you two got off to a good start, but then you sort of screwed up and now you are friends with her but cant get any closer that that?? i know that every tip says move on in that situation but what happens if you still like her?? u guys got any good ways to move on??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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shydude

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You ask her out AGAIN. If she says NO, then you move on, If she says YES, the you move on with her. If she says lets be friends, then you move on, if she says lets just be lovers, then you move on with her, if she says she has a boyfriend, then you move on without her, if she says she is not into relationships thn you move on without her, if she says her mom is not letting her date anyone, then you move on without her. Dont mess with one women, couse there are millions out there waiting for you, and you pick one that you will die with.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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hey man i am serior enough to know all the rules of the game. She has a boy friend, but i dont konw whether or should wait or not. In the mean time i will be looking for replacements.
Thanks for the help anyways
 
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