"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mouth Herpes

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Like I said, I was going to get laid tonight. Now my concern is mouth herpes. I'm hoping this is a canker sore. We did it at about 9:30 pm, it is now 2:21 am, and I noticed it an hour ago. How do I tell if it is a canker sore or something to be worried about? What sort of tests can they do to see what it is?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Herpes takes a LONG time to start up. At LEAST a few days, up to 6 months.

There is no way you'd have a sore 4 hours later. It's a canker sore. Was scared about the same crap about 2 months ago.
 

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herpes are like chicken pox, they take a period of 12 - 14 days to come out. some people claim that they have never had an outbreak.

have you ever had a fever blister before? if so, then you already have oral herpes. one out of four people has it, nothing to be ashamed of.
 
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penkitten said:
herpes are like chicken pox, they take a period of 12 - 14 days to come out. some people claim that they have never had an outbreak.

have you ever had a fever blister before? if so, then you already have oral herpes. one out of four people has it, nothing to be ashamed of.
Actually you should be ashamed for making out with a s*ank with herpes that GAVE IT TO U. Or your just born with it which in that case you should blame your parents. :nono:
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Actually you should be ashamed for making out with a s*ank with herpes that GAVE IT TO U. Or your just born with it which in that case you should blame your parents. :nono:
i caught my herpes from a cheating boyfriend. im not ashamed due to the fact that i didnt catch them on purpose and i didnt know he was a cheating boyfriend.how was i to know that you could still catch it even when a condom was used? everyone always said condoms protected you from stds, so most people assume all stds. this one you can still catch. who knew?? i am not ashamed that one out of four people in the world have it too. it isnt like i go around passing it to other people, i would never do that. its not like its craps or some kind of gonnerhea.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten said:
i caught my herpes from a cheating boyfriend. im not ashamed due to the fact that i didnt catch them on purpose and i didnt know he was a cheating boyfriend.how was i to know that you could still catch it even when a condom was used? everyone always said condoms protected you from stds, so most people assume all stds. this one you can still catch. who knew?? i am not ashamed that one out of four people in the world have it too. it isnt like i go around passing it to other people, i would never do that. its not like its craps or some kind of gonnerhea.
because you dont wear condom on your toungue..
 

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dirtyvibe said:
because you dont wear condom on your toungue..
well not for kissing but they do make oral condoms these days.
 
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