"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mouth and body speaking differently

PlentyOfLove

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Sup guys,

I've a bit of a problem. Or a confusing situation at the very least. There's this girl, who I had a bad oneitis for about a year back or so. She had high IL, and showed all the classic signs. Everything looked good up until last new years, but my oneitis got the best of me and I made some bad decisions, so we became friends on a mutual agreement. Which was cool, she is really a fun person to be with even as just friends, and she's also great for attracting other girls when we're out together.

It's been about a half a year now since we agreed to be friends, and my game's been improving a ton. I have a lot more plates, my social circle is a lot wider, I have a great job, and I even improved my clothing and personal appereance further. I've also spent a lot more time with her now, since we're just friends.

Up until now, anyway. I just came back from a rock festival where we were at to celebrate mid summer with a group of about 10 people, me and her included. She shared a tent with a female friend of mine, and I had my own tent, but as the night progressed and she was about to go to sleep, I told her that I'm coming along. She had no complaints, so I did, and about an hour later she was laying on top of me, trying to reach my tonsils with her tongue. We were just about to do the dirty deed, when this god damned female friend of mine burst through the door drunk off her a$$, gave us a drunken description about her latest sexual encounter that had apparently just ended, passed out on the floor and started snoring. So that was a wrap on the evening.

Your take on this? I have plates spinning now so I'm not really looking to go back into the oneitis mode, but still she's a great gal, and if she is to be judged by her actions instead of words, I'd say there's potential here. Is this going anywhere, or should I just keep her in the friendzone?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Subology

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Don't put a label on it, just continue playing it by ear. Don't expect anything, but don't stand in the way of anything either.
 

Desdinova

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Agreed. Don't get your hopes high on anything. If she's doing things like this, just go along with it until you've got something solid with her. When she's absent, make it like she's not a high priority for you. In other words, let her chase, but keep yourself attractive and just slightly out of her reach.
 
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