"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Motivational thoughts before approaching?

ExcelNPrevail

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Anyone here have any that could be of use?

I always find myself not motivated when it comes to the approach. Like I just seem to let the moment just pass by, instead of just going for it. I dont know if its rejection,being nervous or whatever.

I may have written the title wrong but I think you guys get the point.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Every approach is a potential learning experience.
 

LostAndConfused

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Every single potential approach that you back down from, Every single hot babe that you are interested in and don't talk to, Every single chance you throw away, Every single time you hesitate around a girl, shows that you are less of a man than x-Player (that you dont like.)

Alot of my friends use that as motivation, and I use a variation of that for working out.
 

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LostAndConfused said:
Every single potential approach that you back down from, Every single hot babe that you are interested in and don't talk to, Every single chance you throw away, Every single time you hesitate around a girl, shows that you are less of a man than x-Player (that you dont like.)

Alot of my friends use that as motivation, and I use a variation of that for working out.
Man....If that isn't motivation....I dont know what is. Thanks L.A.C
If anyone else has more post them up, it may help myself more and others.
 
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