"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Motivational thoughts before approaching?

ExcelNPrevail

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Anyone here have any that could be of use?

I always find myself not motivated when it comes to the approach. Like I just seem to let the moment just pass by, instead of just going for it. I dont know if its rejection,being nervous or whatever.

I may have written the title wrong but I think you guys get the point.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

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Every approach is a potential learning experience.
 

LostAndConfused

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Every single potential approach that you back down from, Every single hot babe that you are interested in and don't talk to, Every single chance you throw away, Every single time you hesitate around a girl, shows that you are less of a man than x-Player (that you dont like.)

Alot of my friends use that as motivation, and I use a variation of that for working out.
 

ExcelNPrevail

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LostAndConfused said:
Every single potential approach that you back down from, Every single hot babe that you are interested in and don't talk to, Every single chance you throw away, Every single time you hesitate around a girl, shows that you are less of a man than x-Player (that you dont like.)

Alot of my friends use that as motivation, and I use a variation of that for working out.
Man....If that isn't motivation....I dont know what is. Thanks L.A.C
If anyone else has more post them up, it may help myself more and others.
 
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