"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Motivational songs/speeches etc

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Hey guys,
Just wondering what songs/speeches you guys listen to (if you do), to get you pumped up before a big event. Event could be anything I guess but mainly sport in my experience. Here's 3 to get it started:

1.Lose Yourself - Eminem
2.Let's Get It Started - Black Eyed Peas
3.Every Inch (speech) - Al Pacino in Any Given Sunday
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Rocky theme!
 
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Ripper said:
Hey guys,
Just wondering what songs/speeches you guys listen to (if you do), to get you pumped up before a big event. Event could be anything I guess but mainly sport in my experience. Here's 3 to get it started:

1.Lose Yourself - Eminem
2.Let's Get It Started - Black Eyed Peas
3.Every Inch (speech) - Al Pacino in Any Given Sunday
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What a dork:rolleyes:
 
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I like to listen to successful people talk for motivation. Recently i've been listening to a lot of Diddy ... not just the music but some of his youtube/website videos. He's not the best rapper but just listening to him talk and hearing about the hard work is motivational to me.
 
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Mr_knowit_all said:
What a dork:rolleyes:
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haha nah man, everybody needs to get pumped once in a while...

three 6 mafia- side 2 side has a tite intro. gets me pumped. get the remix if u wanna download it..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yngad said:
I like to listen to successful people talk for motivation. Recently i've been listening to a lot of Diddy ... not just the music but some of his youtube/website videos. He's not the best rapper but just listening to him talk and hearing about the hard work is motivational to me.
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Diddy must be an awesome rap star, I have never fvcking heard of him, I hate rap, it is crap, though I do at least know who 50 Cent and Eminem are, so Diddy can't be the best. :crackup:
 
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The true pimp song to listen to when you go out ballinn...

Flamb0yant - Big L
 
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Kid Rock - American Bad Ass:

I'm an American Bad Ass
Watch me kick, you can roll with Rock
Or you can suck my ****
I'm a porno flick, I'm like Amazing Grace
I'm gunna **** some hoes after I rock this place
Superfly living doublewide
Side car on my Glide so Joe C can ride
****in sack to share, bringing flash and glare
Got the long hair swinging, middle finger in the air
Snake skin suits, 65 Chevelle
See me ridin in sin in the rebel yell
I won't live to tell, so if you do
Give the next generation a big **** YOU
Who knew I'd blow up like Oaklahoma
Said **** high school, pissed on my diploma
Smell the aroma, Check my hits
I know it stinks in here, cause I'm the ****
 
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PigAdlemPimp said:
Diddy must be an awesome rap star, I have never fvcking heard of him, I hate rap, it is crap, though I do at least know who 50 Cent and Eminem are, so Diddy can't be the best. :crackup:
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Have you been living in a f.ucking hole?!!!!! Diddy is a LEGEND! and not just with hip hop music either. Dudes a pimp!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gary Gaines speech on "being perfect" in "Friday night lights."
Ali. most of his stuff was pretty inspirational
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Have you been living in a f.ucking hole?!!!!! Diddy is a LEGEND! and not just with hip hop music either. Dudes a pimp!
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Diddy isn't a dude we hear anything about in Australia, we hear alot about 50 Cent though, especially the fact that he has been shot nine times, plus he has an XBox game on the market, I would have thought he would have been the major ladies man or pimp from the USA rap scene, maybe I'm wrong. :cool:
 
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I get pumped to wesley willis music most of the time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Diddy isn't a dude we hear anything about in Australia, we hear alot about 50 Cent though, especially the fact that he has been shot nine times, plus he has an XBox game on the market, I would have thought he would have been the major ladies man or pimp from the USA rap scene, maybe I'm wrong. :cool:
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Australia huh? So you were living in a hole. :crackup: JP man I got love for the Aussies. Anyways, I'll bring you up to speed. Diddy is better known as Puff daddy or at least P. Diddy. He changes his name a lot. He's been around longer than 50. I don't know about 50 cent being a pimp. All he's been with was Vivica A. Fox. She's hot, but other than her, just the ghetto girls.
 
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