"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Motivational songs/speeches etc

Ripper

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Hey guys,
Just wondering what songs/speeches you guys listen to (if you do), to get you pumped up before a big event. Event could be anything I guess but mainly sport in my experience. Here's 3 to get it started:

1.Lose Yourself - Eminem
2.Let's Get It Started - Black Eyed Peas
3.Every Inch (speech) - Al Pacino in Any Given Sunday
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Rocky theme!
 

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Ripper said:
Hey guys,
Just wondering what songs/speeches you guys listen to (if you do), to get you pumped up before a big event. Event could be anything I guess but mainly sport in my experience. Here's 3 to get it started:

1.Lose Yourself - Eminem
2.Let's Get It Started - Black Eyed Peas
3.Every Inch (speech) - Al Pacino in Any Given Sunday
What a dork:rolleyes:
 

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I like to listen to successful people talk for motivation. Recently i've been listening to a lot of Diddy ... not just the music but some of his youtube/website videos. He's not the best rapper but just listening to him talk and hearing about the hard work is motivational to me.
 

i am me

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Mr_knowit_all said:
What a dork:rolleyes:
haha nah man, everybody needs to get pumped once in a while...

three 6 mafia- side 2 side has a tite intro. gets me pumped. get the remix if u wanna download it..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yngad said:
I like to listen to successful people talk for motivation. Recently i've been listening to a lot of Diddy ... not just the music but some of his youtube/website videos. He's not the best rapper but just listening to him talk and hearing about the hard work is motivational to me.
Diddy must be an awesome rap star, I have never fvcking heard of him, I hate rap, it is crap, though I do at least know who 50 Cent and Eminem are, so Diddy can't be the best. :crackup:
 

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The true pimp song to listen to when you go out ballinn...

Flamb0yant - Big L
 

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Kid Rock - American Bad Ass:

I'm an American Bad Ass
Watch me kick, you can roll with Rock
Or you can suck my ****
I'm a porno flick, I'm like Amazing Grace
I'm gunna **** some hoes after I rock this place
Superfly living doublewide
Side car on my Glide so Joe C can ride
****in sack to share, bringing flash and glare
Got the long hair swinging, middle finger in the air
Snake skin suits, 65 Chevelle
See me ridin in sin in the rebel yell
I won't live to tell, so if you do
Give the next generation a big **** YOU
Who knew I'd blow up like Oaklahoma
Said **** high school, pissed on my diploma
Smell the aroma, Check my hits
I know it stinks in here, cause I'm the ****
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Diddy must be an awesome rap star, I have never fvcking heard of him, I hate rap, it is crap, though I do at least know who 50 Cent and Eminem are, so Diddy can't be the best. :crackup:

Have you been living in a f.ucking hole?!!!!! Diddy is a LEGEND! and not just with hip hop music either. Dudes a pimp!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gary Gaines speech on "being perfect" in "Friday night lights."
Ali. most of his stuff was pretty inspirational
 

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ValleyDJing said:
Have you been living in a f.ucking hole?!!!!! Diddy is a LEGEND! and not just with hip hop music either. Dudes a pimp!
Diddy isn't a dude we hear anything about in Australia, we hear alot about 50 Cent though, especially the fact that he has been shot nine times, plus he has an XBox game on the market, I would have thought he would have been the major ladies man or pimp from the USA rap scene, maybe I'm wrong. :cool:
 

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I get pumped to wesley willis music most of the time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Diddy isn't a dude we hear anything about in Australia, we hear alot about 50 Cent though, especially the fact that he has been shot nine times, plus he has an XBox game on the market, I would have thought he would have been the major ladies man or pimp from the USA rap scene, maybe I'm wrong. :cool:
Australia huh? So you were living in a hole. :crackup: JP man I got love for the Aussies. Anyways, I'll bring you up to speed. Diddy is better known as Puff daddy or at least P. Diddy. He changes his name a lot. He's been around longer than 50. I don't know about 50 cent being a pimp. All he's been with was Vivica A. Fox. She's hot, but other than her, just the ghetto girls.
 
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