"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Motivational books?

kabatura

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Anybody know any good motivational books?

I have realized recently that my former I can take over the world attitude is gone. It has been replaced with a I don't have what it takes to do anything worth doing attitude. I don't know where it came from really. Ill be finishing college in 2 semesters and I feel bad about my major of business administration, like I made a mistake picking that because it's so broad. Anyway, if you have read anything that has really gotten you going let me know.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KarmaSutra

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PM me your email address and I'll tighten you up with some literature and some of my own stuff to get you motivated and keep you fueled for the long haul of reinventing yourself.
 

Quiksilver

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Why were you disappointed by your Business Admin program?
 

kabatura

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It's not the program, I just don't know what I'm going to do right out of college. I don't want to end up as a manager at a grocery store or something.
 

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kabatura said:
It's not the program, I just don't know what I'm going to do right out of college. I don't want to end up as a manager at a grocery store or something.
Did you specialize in anything? Accounting, marketing, resource management...etc. There are no recruiters on your campus hiring? Ask your professors or even the Dean for some guidance or hook ups, they're willing to help. But some times you gotta bug them until you do.

And definitely read KarmaSutra's material. Changed my life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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kabatura said:
It's not the program, I just don't know what I'm going to do right out of college. I don't want to end up as a manager at a grocery store or something.
Join the club. I also have too semesters...but im a psych major...yikes.
 

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There are often job fairs and theres a career office or whatever it's called. I have never really checked those out but I will this semester.

I think it's just a mental block thing, that's why Im looking for motivational things.
 

Evzone

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kabatura said:
It's not the program, I just don't know what I'm going to do right out of college. I don't want to end up as a manager at a grocery store or something.
How good is your school's career services center? My advice, go to them, take an MBTI test, and take some time to figure out what you want to do.

What's your dream job? Initially there must have been something that made you want to study business. Do any of these fields sound interesting:
  • Consulting
  • Investments
  • Finance
  • Accounting
  • Marketing

...because really, you have a valuable degree, assuming of course that you paid attention in class and that this is something that you are interested in.
 

TheHumanist

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Can't the motivational books just be listed here? Why does it have to in a private message to only one to see instead for all?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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