"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rapsta

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Ok I'm cutting at the moment. Or I'm trying to.
So my goal is not to eat unhealthy food and practice 4-5 days a week.
But now I've started working, so I cant stick to healthy food all the time. So i ate some sweets, and now my motivation is all gone. Now I'm eating candy like a damn pig. Any tips on how to stay motivated?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Get a scale. Measure your progress daily. If the scale has a body fat indicator, that's even better. It's a huge motivator to put your daily readings into a spreadsheet and see a trend downward.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I wouldn't just use a scale, I'd take body measurements too. We all know that muscle weighs more than fat so the weight alone will not tell the entire story. This comes into play once it seems that you aren't loosing nearly as much weight or maybe even gaining. Measure those muscles and compare your finding to your initial measurements and you may be pleasantly surprised.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
We all know that muscle weighs more than fat so the weight alone will not tell the entire story.
Very true, although he said he was cutting so I assumed his goal was to lose weight. If you're trying to cut fat and build muscle, use a scale that measures body fat. I have a scale by Tanita that is pretty good.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I got the Tanita BF680 scale at Amazon.com. It was about $53. You maybe able to find cheaper ones.

A body fat scale measures your BF by sending an electrical signal through your body. It compares how long the signal takes to travel with your height, and can measure your BF (something to do with the amount of water in fat....I don't recall the exact physics).

The only downside is that you'll want to make sure you're sufficiently hydrated before measuring yourself. Being dehyrdrated can screw up the reading a little.
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
Ok I'm cutting at the moment. Or I'm trying to.
So my goal is not to eat unhealthy food and practice 4-5 days a week.
But now I've started working, so I cant stick to healthy food all the time. So i ate some sweets, and now my motivation is all gone. Now I'm eating candy like a damn pig. Any tips on how to stay motivated?
Bring your own lunch and food items that ARE healthy to work with you.
 

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Take a picture of yourself without a top on and look at it everyday and really look at yourself and say "I DONT WANT TO SEE THIS FAT AGAIN"
 

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Originally posted by The-Sultan
Take a picture of yourself without a top on and look at it everyday and really look at yourself and say "I DONT WANT TO SEE THIS FAT AGAIN"
lawl...that's funny but it could work. :cool:
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
Ok I'm cutting at the moment. Or I'm trying to.
So my goal is not to eat unhealthy food and practice 4-5 days a week.
But now I've started working, so I cant stick to healthy food all the time. So i ate some sweets, and now my motivation is all gone. Now I'm eating candy like a damn pig. Any tips on how to stay motivated?

We all have lapses and binge sometimes. Just remember that you probably used to eat like that on a daily basis. One day of cheating won't break you, just get back on the wagon.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by HalfAddict
Try a Drill Instructor...

He'll motivate you.
Be realistic. He needs serious advice.
 

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Hi Rapsta,

Focus on what you will get if you stick to your cutting plan.

Think about the whole world of pain you're in if you don't achieve your goal, that should keep you on track.
 

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think about people that are almost DIEING from hunger.....not just feeling like dieing but really are......people that are so hungry that they eat things equal to ****.........they would LOVE to eat a cutting diet. people who never were drinking with friends in a club/party. and people like me think alcohol is a essential human need??! people in the society think that it must be a very bad life if you can't eat candys and fast food. how ****ed up in the brain are they? AS IF EATING HEALTHY IS THE END OF THE WORLD. COMPARED TO WHAT SOME OTHER PEOPLE HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT IS A ****ING JOKE. ONLY BECAUSE THE COMPANIES HAVE MADE US TO PVSSYS THAT WE BUY THEIR **** FOOD DO WE THINK THIS WAY. BUT IT IS JUST A ****ED UP LIE.....JUST TAKE A LOOK AT ALL THE "HAPPY" PEOPLE THAT DRINK AND EAT TO GET LITTLE BIT OF PLEASURE AND THAT A LOT OF PAIN. ARE THEY HAPPY?? PVSSYS CAN NEVER BE REALLY HAPPY IN LIFE
 

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Well aint that a bytch double. nice fvcking post bro. thanks alot. thanks to you too alpine! I used to have the mindset that double had in this post while i was in the military, but i somehow lost it hehe. But its cool that you're reminding me. On monday im starting an 8 week cutting routine.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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