"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Motivation

BuddhaSMASH

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This is a topic we don't address enough on this page. Most people don't have iron wills. How do you guys keep yourselves motivated?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Charm

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I personally do t'ai chi on a nearly daily basis. It gives me a ton of energy and motivation as well as keeps me in good shape and able to defend myself. I can apply the martial art principles to real life situations that are non-physical but still confrontational.
 

BuddhaSMASH

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Thats not exactly what I was looking for. See, the kind of people I am referring to are those that can't get motivated to GO to tai chi classes. You see what I'm saying?
 

Ricky

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My motivation to lift comes from looking at all the hot chicks in the fitness magazines.

They pump me up, that and music!
 

Zelemont

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You really find those women attractive? The majority of women I see in fitness magazines have a disguisting amount of muscle... There are a few hot ones sometimes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ricky

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Oh no I'm talking about the fitness babes, not the hardcore muscle babes.
 

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aolsuxs

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That #1 speech is money. I have a poster of that which hangs on my wall
 

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Re: This is Motivation

Originally posted by FekTraz
This is off of T-mag, I thought I was motivated enough just wanting to look good naked, but this really topped me off....when I'm having a bad day, all I need to do is read this.

http://www.testosterone.net/nation_articles/240tc.jsp
Great article. I wish I had someone like that guy to motivate me. But I have to do it all alone... *sniff*
 
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