BuddhaSMASH
Don Juan
This is a topic we don't address enough on this page. Most people don't have iron wills. How do you guys keep yourselves motivated?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Motivation
- Thread starter BuddhaSMASH
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I personally do t'ai chi on a nearly daily basis. It gives me a ton of energy and motivation as well as keeps me in good shape and able to defend myself. I can apply the martial art principles to real life situations that are non-physical but still confrontational.
BuddhaSMASH
Don Juan
Thats not exactly what I was looking for. See, the kind of people I am referring to are those that can't get motivated to GO to tai chi classes. You see what I'm saying?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
FekTraz
Don Juan
This is Motivation
This is off of T-mag, I thought I was motivated enough just wanting to look good naked, but this really topped me off....when I'm having a bad day, all I need to do is read this.
http://www.testosterone.net/nation_articles/240tc.jsp
This is off of T-mag, I thought I was motivated enough just wanting to look good naked, but this really topped me off....when I'm having a bad day, all I need to do is read this.
http://www.testosterone.net/nation_articles/240tc.jsp
Re: This is Motivation
Great article. I wish I had someone like that guy to motivate me. But I have to do it all alone... *sniff*Originally posted by FekTraz
This is off of T-mag, I thought I was motivated enough just wanting to look good naked, but this really topped me off....when I'm having a bad day, all I need to do is read this.
http://www.testosterone.net/nation_articles/240tc.jsp