Motivating myself to go and sarge.

[onyx]

I never sarge in the day I just do it in clubs and bars. I guess its about 100x harder sarging at malls and that though

 

[ElStud]

Yeah, closest I got to an approach was saying "Hey" to this one hot chick who passed. I also saw a friend of mine and his girlfriend there and they said hi to me.

 

[Roulette]

I never sarge in the day I just do it in clubs and bars. I guess its about 100x harder sarging at malls and that though

Interesting. For me it's the complete opposite.

 

[robstar]

Yep, so I went to the mall and as expected, no approaches.

What you expect, you get.

 

[EFFORT]

Are there any other venues with a lot of chicks? If not stick with the mall, just accept it as something your going to be doing and theres no way out. Go there talk to 5 chicks even if its just asking a question, time, whatever, then go home. If you do this daily thats 150 chicks you would of had some sort of interaction with in a month. Out of all those some will actually go better than the rest and even if they all just suck you will be getting more comfortable and caring less which will come off more and more overtime. Go at it another month and thats 150 more intereactions, since you care alittle less you'll push the envelope a tad more by trying things that u were scared to try the month before, so you'll do that for awhile get comfortable with it, then you'll push again, etc, you'll just keep progressing. By the end of the year you've done 1800 approaches. Out of all those you would of gotten numbers, day 2's , sex, confidence. Go at it like that for another 4years and your up to 9000 approaches with too many girls to handle, you'll be the guy people look at and wonder how the **** is he getting all those girls? Just gotta stick with it man, its just something you do, don't question it, don't think about it,don't reason it, just accept it as something you do and do it.