"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Motivating myself to go and sarge.

onyx

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I never sarge in the day I just do it in clubs and bars. I guess its about 100x harder sarging at malls and that though
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ElStud

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Yeah, closest I got to an approach was saying "Hey" to this one hot chick who passed. I also saw a friend of mine and his girlfriend there and they said hi to me.
 

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onyx said:
I never sarge in the day I just do it in clubs and bars. I guess its about 100x harder sarging at malls and that though
Interesting. For me it's the complete opposite.
 

EFFORT

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Are there any other venues with a lot of chicks? If not stick with the mall, just accept it as something your going to be doing and theres no way out. Go there talk to 5 chicks even if its just asking a question, time, whatever, then go home. If you do this daily thats 150 chicks you would of had some sort of interaction with in a month. Out of all those some will actually go better than the rest and even if they all just suck you will be getting more comfortable and caring less which will come off more and more overtime. Go at it another month and thats 150 more intereactions, since you care alittle less you'll push the envelope a tad more by trying things that u were scared to try the month before, so you'll do that for awhile get comfortable with it, then you'll push again, etc, you'll just keep progressing. By the end of the year you've done 1800 approaches. Out of all those you would of gotten numbers, day 2's , sex, confidence. Go at it like that for another 4years and your up to 9000 approaches with too many girls to handle, you'll be the guy people look at and wonder how the **** is he getting all those girls? Just gotta stick with it man, its just something you do, don't question it, don't think about it,don't reason it, just accept it as something you do and do it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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