"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Motivate me

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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...are you mother****ing serious... oh my gosh.

you obviously have enough motivation to come to this site and get a username...

here's some motivation...

you're gay

go get girls or you really ARE gay.
 
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If you need motivation from this us then theres a problem.
 
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JLW

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Motivate your god damn self.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Paradigm Artisan

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You don't need motivation you need the truth.

Truth is, no body on this board can fvck women for you. Truth is, you need to work on yourself, and every second that you don't oppurtunity will pass you by because you weren't ready. Truth is, the world goes on even if your not equiped to live it to the fullest. Nobody will wait for you. Truth is, you'll regret not doing anything to better yourself in the future. Truth is, if you don't get motivated now then you may not get motivated later and you will never know what it's like to be successful in life. And the truth may be that the love of your life is taken up because you weren't motivated to work towards a goal you sure as hell knew that it was worth it.

So truth be told, get off your @ss and do something, before the truth is you just wasted your life.
 
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Truth is, no body on this board can fvck women for you.
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Wrong! I'll gladly fvck a woman he wants if he won't go get her.

*Giant Steel Toed Boot Comes Down From Sky And Kicks You Halfway Across The Country*
 
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DUDE GRAB YOUR FKING BALLS!!!

now thats! a true motivation!
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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i find this hilarious... he might be a "troll" or w/e...

but he made the thread... and then 2 or so people respond... no answer...

and yet people are still replying just to bash on him...

i thought i'd just type that in here... it's sad (but FUNNY!) that this is what the high school forum is becoming.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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djweses89

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idk but he shouldnt post such a stupid thread in the first place ive seen some bad ones that have no info about there problem or w/e but this is just horriable how you gunna tell someone to motivate you does he want us to come to his house and kick him in the ass.
 
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Okay guys, maybe I didn't spend the time to completely inform you of what I was talking about, my DJ skill are alright however I've gotten too acustom to NEXTing chicks at the first sign of a challenge and because of this I'm to lazy to take the time to spit game at chicks that I would really wan't cause the ones I have don't really require any effort any more, with these chicks the satisfaction is just momentary and I can't seem to find anyone who I deem worthy of putting in the effort.
 
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yea man if your too lazy to go get a girl then ur doin nothin for yourself. my friend for example (not tryin to sound gay) but girls think of him as a very attrative man and could easy without probley any effort get almost any girl he wants but hes lazy and girls that dont just jump on his **** and take the man role then he doesnt even bother because hes lazy and has no disire too. now do you want to end up like him having a chance with plenty of very hot women but get none becuase your lazy or use that as an excuse to not admit to yourself your shy or w/e about getting wit a girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There are a lot of girls out there and at least 1/10th of them are worth giving a shot. Sounds like all you need to do is get out there. Sorry to get all drill sargent on you but you're gonna have to get off your *** and do something. As its been said before unless your a rockstar with a following of groupies, the girls aren't gonna come to you.
It sounds like you already have the desire to meet a nice girl, shouldn't that be motivation enough?
 
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