"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Motivate me

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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...are you mother****ing serious... oh my gosh.

you obviously have enough motivation to come to this site and get a username...

here's some motivation...

you're gay

go get girls or you really ARE gay.
 
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If you need motivation from this us then theres a problem.
 
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Motivate your god damn self.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You don't need motivation you need the truth.

Truth is, no body on this board can fvck women for you. Truth is, you need to work on yourself, and every second that you don't oppurtunity will pass you by because you weren't ready. Truth is, the world goes on even if your not equiped to live it to the fullest. Nobody will wait for you. Truth is, you'll regret not doing anything to better yourself in the future. Truth is, if you don't get motivated now then you may not get motivated later and you will never know what it's like to be successful in life. And the truth may be that the love of your life is taken up because you weren't motivated to work towards a goal you sure as hell knew that it was worth it.

So truth be told, get off your @ss and do something, before the truth is you just wasted your life.
 
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Truth is, no body on this board can fvck women for you.
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Wrong! I'll gladly fvck a woman he wants if he won't go get her.

*Giant Steel Toed Boot Comes Down From Sky And Kicks You Halfway Across The Country*
 
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DUDE GRAB YOUR FKING BALLS!!!

now thats! a true motivation!
 
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i find this hilarious... he might be a "troll" or w/e...

but he made the thread... and then 2 or so people respond... no answer...

and yet people are still replying just to bash on him...

i thought i'd just type that in here... it's sad (but FUNNY!) that this is what the high school forum is becoming.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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idk but he shouldnt post such a stupid thread in the first place ive seen some bad ones that have no info about there problem or w/e but this is just horriable how you gunna tell someone to motivate you does he want us to come to his house and kick him in the ass.
 
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Okay guys, maybe I didn't spend the time to completely inform you of what I was talking about, my DJ skill are alright however I've gotten too acustom to NEXTing chicks at the first sign of a challenge and because of this I'm to lazy to take the time to spit game at chicks that I would really wan't cause the ones I have don't really require any effort any more, with these chicks the satisfaction is just momentary and I can't seem to find anyone who I deem worthy of putting in the effort.
 
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yea man if your too lazy to go get a girl then ur doin nothin for yourself. my friend for example (not tryin to sound gay) but girls think of him as a very attrative man and could easy without probley any effort get almost any girl he wants but hes lazy and girls that dont just jump on his **** and take the man role then he doesnt even bother because hes lazy and has no disire too. now do you want to end up like him having a chance with plenty of very hot women but get none becuase your lazy or use that as an excuse to not admit to yourself your shy or w/e about getting wit a girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There are a lot of girls out there and at least 1/10th of them are worth giving a shot. Sounds like all you need to do is get out there. Sorry to get all drill sargent on you but you're gonna have to get off your *** and do something. As its been said before unless your a rockstar with a following of groupies, the girls aren't gonna come to you.
It sounds like you already have the desire to meet a nice girl, shouldn't that be motivation enough?
 
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