"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Motion to Postpone the Bootcamp?

BPH

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I'm having a lot of trouble finding the time to do these assignments lately. I don't know about you guys but the weekend is really the only time I'm able to go out somewhere and meet some girls, and when that doesn't work out (like tonight) I'm left out to dry.

Is it possible to do this during the summer? It would be so much easier to go out and meet new people. I just feel like I'm going to get behind with these assignments as I've already been through my school and am currently sitting at home because I wasn't able to take the car to the mall while I'm invited to a party that I probably won't be able to go to due to the snowy weather.

Tell me how you guys feel, the bootcamp is a great idea but I don't know about its timing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jack Wealthy

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I live Southern Hemisphere, so this IS Summer for me.

Secondly, I am at a disadvantage because most of America is GMT -8:00 and Perth is +8:00. That means I effectively get most assignments 16 hours late, i.e. mid-morning Tuesday. At the earliest. I also just moved back here so I'm not going out on the weekends yet.

So even doing every challenge with six days in a place I just moved back to, I still manage. No excuses boys.
 

Mindgamez

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I also have troubles keeping up with the bootcamp sometimes with school. I agree that during the summer would be 10 times better, but I want to improve fast so it's alright. Lets not make any excuses.
 

LearningSlowly

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I would not be okay with moving the boot camp to the summer.

I could do with having two weeks to each challenge, at the rate they're pushing me, but that's sort of a weak excuse.

I got a couple tonight, but this requires real effort.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jack Wealthy

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LearningSlowly said:
I would not be okay with moving the boot camp to the summer.

I could do with having two weeks to each challenge, at the rate they're pushing me, but that's sort of a weak excuse.

I got a couple tonight, but this requires real effort.
lol at the fact this week is your own challenge and you're getting pushed to hard. Wait til my week, 40 approaches and all of the must be full-closes in a row or you have to start again.

Also, your challenge is the only one so far to be there before school on Monday. Congrats (y)
 

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I see why people may complain about it, but I figure nobody's required to do it. I'm trying to do it as best I can, but what with riots and the fact that cold approaches here are next to nil, I know it's not gonna be amazing.

That said, those in countries where cold approaching is much easier, i.e. Western countries - deal with it. I know that when I go home to Virginia this summer I'm gonna meet as many new chicks as possible.

But a 2 week period for each is not a bad idea.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NorwegianDJ

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It'll be the same effect as in school, the urgency effect just wont be there, thus you will still procrastinate and have just as little time. However, if any leaders manage to work past this, and create a false urgency feeling, then Im for it.
 

LearningSlowly

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Jack Wealthy said:
lol at the fact this week is your own challenge and you're getting pushed to hard. Wait til my week, 40 approaches and all of the must be full-closes in a row or you have to start again.
lol youre a ****.

I picked my challenge to be specifically hard for me.

I don't know about this two week idea. I know I proposed it, but it seems lazy to me. The way each challenge is built is so that it can be completed in one week.
 
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