"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Motion to Postpone the Bootcamp?

BPH

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I'm having a lot of trouble finding the time to do these assignments lately. I don't know about you guys but the weekend is really the only time I'm able to go out somewhere and meet some girls, and when that doesn't work out (like tonight) I'm left out to dry.

Is it possible to do this during the summer? It would be so much easier to go out and meet new people. I just feel like I'm going to get behind with these assignments as I've already been through my school and am currently sitting at home because I wasn't able to take the car to the mall while I'm invited to a party that I probably won't be able to go to due to the snowy weather.

Tell me how you guys feel, the bootcamp is a great idea but I don't know about its timing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jack Wealthy

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I live Southern Hemisphere, so this IS Summer for me.

Secondly, I am at a disadvantage because most of America is GMT -8:00 and Perth is +8:00. That means I effectively get most assignments 16 hours late, i.e. mid-morning Tuesday. At the earliest. I also just moved back here so I'm not going out on the weekends yet.

So even doing every challenge with six days in a place I just moved back to, I still manage. No excuses boys.
 

Mindgamez

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I also have troubles keeping up with the bootcamp sometimes with school. I agree that during the summer would be 10 times better, but I want to improve fast so it's alright. Lets not make any excuses.
 

LearningSlowly

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I would not be okay with moving the boot camp to the summer.

I could do with having two weeks to each challenge, at the rate they're pushing me, but that's sort of a weak excuse.

I got a couple tonight, but this requires real effort.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jack Wealthy

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LearningSlowly said:
I would not be okay with moving the boot camp to the summer.

I could do with having two weeks to each challenge, at the rate they're pushing me, but that's sort of a weak excuse.

I got a couple tonight, but this requires real effort.
lol at the fact this week is your own challenge and you're getting pushed to hard. Wait til my week, 40 approaches and all of the must be full-closes in a row or you have to start again.

Also, your challenge is the only one so far to be there before school on Monday. Congrats (y)
 

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I see why people may complain about it, but I figure nobody's required to do it. I'm trying to do it as best I can, but what with riots and the fact that cold approaches here are next to nil, I know it's not gonna be amazing.

That said, those in countries where cold approaching is much easier, i.e. Western countries - deal with it. I know that when I go home to Virginia this summer I'm gonna meet as many new chicks as possible.

But a 2 week period for each is not a bad idea.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NorwegianDJ

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It'll be the same effect as in school, the urgency effect just wont be there, thus you will still procrastinate and have just as little time. However, if any leaders manage to work past this, and create a false urgency feeling, then Im for it.
 

LearningSlowly

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Jack Wealthy said:
lol at the fact this week is your own challenge and you're getting pushed to hard. Wait til my week, 40 approaches and all of the must be full-closes in a row or you have to start again.
lol youre a ****.

I picked my challenge to be specifically hard for me.

I don't know about this two week idea. I know I proposed it, but it seems lazy to me. The way each challenge is built is so that it can be completed in one week.
 
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