"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bible_Belt
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With cattle, we call that "line-breeding." Brother and sister would be in-breeding, but line-breeding is a valid technique. The idea is that one line has just such great genes that you don't need any more genetic diversity to produce good offspring. Looking at the two of them, I'd guess their line could stand for a little genetic improvement, and thus line-breeding would not be ideal.
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Jeez, I wonder who's behind this agenda?
Top kekJeez, I wonder who's behind this agenda?
The world's population is to concentrated. This guy is so beta and the women are so picky that this man has to resort to sleeping with his own mother. What's next. I want to ride to stop.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I always love your posts man, but you tempt me to say poo in loo everytime, it's inevitable.Jeez, I wonder who's behind this agenda?
Back to topic. Yes, ****ing disgusting. What will we see before we die my fellow sosuavers...
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