Most Women Under 30 Have Slept with 70 Men or More ... While the Average Guy Gets Laid Once Every Year

[BadBoy89]

Think Esptein's Island combined with spirit cooking and hosted by the richest people in the world (off the books)

It’s not Esptein, they are young and hot but over 18.

 

[BPH]

It’s not Esptein, they are young and hot but over 18.

Hey, child, put your big boy pants back on.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Is this the supposed goddess we were talking about earlier? Wouldn't be surprised she's dating 2 dudes with eyes on the side of her damn head. 7/10, 7.5 tops with the weird eyes and resting b face. Plus super short too. I wouldn't kick her out of bed, partially because she isn't worth much effort.

 

[SW15]

Is this the supposed goddess we were talking about earlier?

She has some better pictures elsewhere. She looks better in this video than that picture.

Plus super short too.

She's 5'3". That's close to the 5'4" average for a woman in the United States.

 

[Clockwerk50]

OK, so you are saying that a good looking man can sleep with 100+ hot women by time he is 30; no questions asked.
But a hot women coveted by the rich, the powerful, the athletes, the actors, the men who have their hands on the nuclear button, will not sleep with these men or men of the like because of her selectively and long-term bonding?

I don't know. I don't think a hot women under 30 could resist the power of the tall rich Alpha man because she is thinking about "long term bonding", but hey, I'm not Brad Pitt.

Remember that scene in Eyes Wide Shut when Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise were arguing about her cheating and Tom Cruise said "women don't think that way." And Nicole Kidman "If you men only knew" She then continued "Remember that tall handsome sailor we saw at the dinner party. I would have given up everything, my husband, my child, my life, just for ONE night with him." He was shocked his hot wife said that.



Who is hot?

Yes, I am saying that. Your logic seems to be: “If I were a handsome man with options, I’d act on them, therefore a hot woman with options must do the same.” That’s projection. You’re also assuming that if you were ultra-rich, you’d be pumping and dumping, and therefore every ultra-rich man must be doing the same thing. That’s a string of assumptions stacked on more assumptions.

But here’s the reality: even when you introduce powerful men into the equation, selectivity and long-term pair bonding still apply. Here’s why:

1. The pool of ultra-elite men is tiny. A hot woman hooking up with a billionaire or A-list actor isn’t thinking, “I’ll get another one next week.” She’s more likely to push for commitment because she knows how rare that opportunity is. That creates pressure to secure the opportunity and commitment, not burn through dozens of them casually.
2. High body count lowers long-term desirability. You’re assuming women can endlessly rack up partners and still be considered high-value by elite men. But those same men often don’t choose women with long sexual track records for commitment. The more she sleeps around, the more her value drops, so again, there’s a built-in incentive for selectivity.
3. Women are more strategic in dating especially when powerful men are involved. If she’s around status and wealth, she’s not going to risk her access lightly. She’s calculating: “Is this going to upgrade my life or burn the bridge?” That kind of long-term thinking is more common than you think.

So yeah, your take is more about what you’d do if you had those options, not what most women actually do. That’s straight projection.

 

[MatureDJ]

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Is this the supposed goddess we were talking about earlier? Wouldn't be surprised she's dating 2 dudes with eyes on the side of her damn head. 7/10, 7.5 tops with the weird eyes and resting b face. Plus super short too. I wouldn't kick her out of bed, partially because she isn't worth much effort.

I'd hit it.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

Sure, I'll volunteer.

I'm like near 50 years old, working at a low-paying full-time job that is keeping my car in the driveway and managing two elderly folks. I cancelled out of a gym that I can't afford and have less than $ 50 on my account between paycheques. That's my excuse. Don't know about the 16 year old guy, but if you have free time and money then you can do allot of things. If you have neither than you are stuck.

According to chatgpt, I have it almost in one of the worst lot for most gen-Xes in my situation, which is aggrevated by the financial situation on top or the caregiving load. Pretty hard as you can get it for a gen-X.

1) Instead of gym I'd recommend you calisthenics - it requires minimal amount of $, all you need for start are basic push up handles, dumbbells, some calisthenics training list as well as patience to train even for 15 mins everyday (optimal would be 30-45 mins), please note that it also saves time as just a trip to gym takes often more time than whole indoor calisthenics session - and calisthenics is much better for +40y old body than standard gym anyway - it can help you look more lean and naturally muscled;
2) after +/- 3 months of calisthenic maxxing I would start looking for a better paying job - it will take some time to find it but you will be more confident thanks to training. It is important to send application after application. I'd also take more labour intensive job if it pays better
3) I'd sell some things you do not use anymore to create some financial reserve (old hobby items, old books, unused kitchen robots, RTV etc.) even for small amount of money
4) I'd also kept myself always organised (looks, clean shoes, ironed shirts etc), I'd abstain from smoking and drinking
5) if there is a job that pays better, requires some skills upgrade and you think you can do it - save money for the upgrade, then do the upgrade (in your situation I would consider anything that requires limited amount of assets, time and that is already connected with your set of skills). It would be the best to take something like forklift course, mechanician or mobile crane operator course - soft skill courses are usually of dubious worth - also do not take courses that would be useless for you (no one wants nearly 50y old sales manager if you have no experience whatsoever in this area);
6) in case of struggling either for time or money when helping your (I assume) parents or grandparents, I would try also to look for social or community programmes that provide any kind of support for families with elderly ppl
7) if its going about sex - I'd stick to porn at the start (1 session per week), and after changing job I would start to use dating apps for hookups (no LTRs mate unless woman is all about you, which probably won't happen until you will fix your current situation). After changing job, if no luck with females in a 2 months, I would allow myself to use massage parlour where your Mr. D. would get massaged too - it would be good ego-booster/reward for all the effort
8) what you do (taking care of elderly ppl) is admirable, do not forget about that - but thats your limit of helping others - you need to help yourself too
9) many guys went "from 0 to hero" near their 50s therefore it is far from over for you - it is all about keeping yourself motivated, having a plan and acting on it (also taking under consideration setbacks - like chance for unexpected bill).

 

[justaroundthecorner]

The original statement is untrue - high body count females are usually the ones that are extraverted, like to travel, and that are egoistic (no children, no animals, service/corporate sector work) but most of them are still more between 10-20 sexual partners.

My friend is gynecologist - he said he had 45 year old patient that was still remarkably good looking - during the standard exam he has noticed she was still a virgin - she confirmed. The woman was classy, manager type lass, quite reserved in behaviour, there was also some sad story about her young fiance dying young, after which she lost interest in dating. Whether the story was true or not, not all women are carousellers - only fun type or these with serious mommy/daddy issues.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I'd hit it.

I'd hit Billie Eilish too, not sure there's too much of a dif in hotness other than Sweeney being better dressed

 

[corrector]

1) Instead of gym I'd recommend you calisthenics - it requires minimal amount of $, all you need for start are basic push up handles, dumbbells, some calisthenics training list as well as patience to train even for 15 mins everyday (optimal would be 30-45 mins), please note that it also saves time as just a trip to gym takes often more time than whole indoor calisthenics session - and calisthenics is much better for +40y old body than standard gym anyway - it can help you look more lean and naturally muscled;
2) after +/- 3 months of calisthenic maxxing I would start looking for a better paying job - it will take some time to find it but you will be more confident thanks to training. It is important to send application after application. I'd also take more labour intensive job if it pays better
3) I'd sell some things you do not use anymore to create some financial reserve (old hobby items, old books, unused kitchen robots, RTV etc.) even for small amount of money
4) I'd also kept myself always organised (looks, clean shoes, ironed shirts etc), I'd abstain from smoking and drinking
5) if there is a job that pays better, requires some skills upgrade and you think you can do it - save money for the upgrade, then do the upgrade (in your situation I would consider anything that requires limited amount of assets, time and that is already connected with your set of skills). It would be the best to take something like forklift course, mechanician or mobile crane operator course - soft skill courses are usually of dubious worth - also do not take courses that would be useless for you (no one wants nearly 50y old sales manager if you have no experience whatsoever in this area);
6) in case of struggling either for time or money when helping your (I assume) parents or grandparents, I would try also to look for social or community programmes that provide any kind of support for families with elderly ppl
7) if its going about sex - I'd stick to porn at the start (1 session per week), and after changing job I would start to use dating apps for hookups (no LTRs mate unless woman is all about you, which probably won't happen until you will fix your current situation). After changing job, if no luck with females in a 2 months, I would allow myself to use massage parlour where your Mr. D. would get massaged too - it would be good ego-booster/reward for all the effort
8) what you do (taking care of elderly ppl) is admirable, do not forget about that - but thats your limit of helping others - you need to help yourself too
9) many guys went "from 0 to hero" near their 50s therefore it is far from over for you - it is all about keeping yourself motivated, having a plan and acting on it (also taking under consideration setbacks - like chance for unexpected bill).

The caregiving burden that I have is expecially very harsh that I don't think I can hold down a new job.

The current job I have is 100% WFH, although it supposed to be a 100% office job (ie other co-workers attend the office, I had to get the paper-work to get an accomodation to WFH), and even on that level, and even though it starts at 2pm, i'm very commonly near 2 hours late to start of the shift and have interruptions during the day. (Ie mom has been known to ring that alarm over nonsence even though I'm working on a call while she pulls the alarm)

I was doing Real-Estate as a side hussle but have to pause that. The problem with caregiving is that when it comes to it, I have to drive up north to get groceries and keep getting essential items, plus different things at home. It was bad enough with one disabled parents, but one disabled (ie 100% immobile) parent plus another one with a psykosis condition that needs supervision it put things to a breakign point. So, I don't feel it's realistic to look for another job, rather it's more about seeing how far I can manage without having to go on another Leave of Absence and/or declare bankruptcy

 

[BaronOfHair]

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The caregiving burden that I have is expecially very harsh that I don't think I can hold down a new job

Apparently, Dr. Kevorkian's original Thanatron is up for sale on Ebay.... It may be worth forking over a few bucks on, for the sake of eliminating this particular burden, hombre

 

[SW15]

The pool of ultra-elite men is tiny. A hot woman hooking up with a billionaire or A-list actor isn’t thinking, “I’ll get another one next week.” She’s more likely to push for commitment because she knows how rare that opportunity is. That creates pressure to secure the opportunity and commitment, not burn through dozens of them casually.

This is true. Some billionaire men don't have much game. Jeff Bezos ended up with a similarly aged, far past her prime woman that he got from his social circle. She (Lauren Sanchez) was in a typical decaying monogamous marriage of 10+ years and 2 kids with a Beta Bucks guy. Before her decaying marriage, she had a random baby with an elite 1990s-early 2000s pro athlete.

I think many women want to get an elite man to commit to them.

Here's an example of a somewhat attractive woman (6 range) who couldn't get a top tier man to commit to her. She was able to have sex with many top tier men.

High body count lowers long-term desirability. You’re assuming women can endlessly rack up partners and still be considered high-value by elite men. But those same men often don’t choose women with long sexual track records for commitment. The more she sleeps around, the more her value drops, so again, there’s a built-in incentive for selectivity.

This is true. I think some women are better at hiding their body count than others. In many cases, the damage from a high body count will emerge.