"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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most people don't have a clue about probabiliity

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or any understanding of ratios. There is something called the 'Law of Diminishing Returns" that says you get less and less for each additional unit of resources committed, as you get closer and closer to what is possible".

A rd of ammo that is rated as a 90% likely manstopper (with a regular chest hit, now, not lucky FLUKES to spine, or hip-pelvis socket, nor brain) and not a hit to the guts, which has no ability or reason to have any sort of effect, for MANY seconds, at the very least) is 3X as good a choice as a 70% load. A 90% manstopper leaves 10 men out of 100 attackers still able/willing to fight. A 70% load leaves 30 such men out of 100 attackers. 3x as good odds of success.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what about head shots?
 

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what about them? of COURSE they are the sort of hit most likely to suffice. but when you mix them in with body hits, it just messes up the entire debate. you don't benefit much, if any, by going from a 9 mm up to a 357 when you hit the brain. If you splash his brains everywhere, of course he's stopped, and any decent load can accomplish that, but only the merest handful of people being attacked are going to possess the level of skill and nerve control to make reliable brain hits. Such people tend to not get attacked, or if they are (like me) they draw their pistol and get "aimed in" so fast that the attacker flees or surrenders, because he has no choice but to do so or die. I've held men at gunpoint 4x in my life, and each time, they knew damned well that they'd better stop. :)
 
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