"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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most people don't have a clue about probabiliity

goundra

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or any understanding of ratios. There is something called the 'Law of Diminishing Returns" that says you get less and less for each additional unit of resources committed, as you get closer and closer to what is possible".

A rd of ammo that is rated as a 90% likely manstopper (with a regular chest hit, now, not lucky FLUKES to spine, or hip-pelvis socket, nor brain) and not a hit to the guts, which has no ability or reason to have any sort of effect, for MANY seconds, at the very least) is 3X as good a choice as a 70% load. A 90% manstopper leaves 10 men out of 100 attackers still able/willing to fight. A 70% load leaves 30 such men out of 100 attackers. 3x as good odds of success.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what about head shots?
 

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what about them? of COURSE they are the sort of hit most likely to suffice. but when you mix them in with body hits, it just messes up the entire debate. you don't benefit much, if any, by going from a 9 mm up to a 357 when you hit the brain. If you splash his brains everywhere, of course he's stopped, and any decent load can accomplish that, but only the merest handful of people being attacked are going to possess the level of skill and nerve control to make reliable brain hits. Such people tend to not get attacked, or if they are (like me) they draw their pistol and get "aimed in" so fast that the attacker flees or surrenders, because he has no choice but to do so or die. I've held men at gunpoint 4x in my life, and each time, they knew damned well that they'd better stop. :)
 
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