Most of you will get married then divorced

[mikey2012]

Because this is what happens unless you are blessed to be in 99% ile

 

[Zion]

I don't think humans are monogamous creatures.

Sure you can love and have an amazing relationship but let's be honest here, that **** does not last forever. The concept of marriage is retarded to me.

 

[mikey2012]

Those who are still....are unhappy, have no options....they die miserable

 

[Zion]

Pretty much my impression as well.

 

[BrainDamage92]

I strongly believe that if two people who are happy with themselves and have similar thinking get together it CAN form a good union.

I also belive you should never live like a family with a female (sharing a bed, sharing a home) if your goal isnt having kids. Keep it casual if you dont want kids couse having kids is part of living as a man and a woman together its what I feel. Esp women, they always want kids, even if they wont admit it, couse clock is ticking for them ofc. I dont have kids but Ive had this proto-marriage thingy without kids and with a wrong person and it dont work this way.

The third thing I believe is that nobody is unique - there are 6 billion mofos out there so dont flatter yourself. The only thing that makes me special is the time people give to me and the only thing that makes others special is the time I give to them.

There is nothing worse than the pain from realisation that you gave a great amount of your time to a wrong person. This means wrong people are also giving you their time when you dont need this, and it means you need to improve and work on your thought process at least.

And marriage, its an outdated concept, people have no fear of God or the King so its pointless really. Marriage is based around the idea that femaless are lesser beings. They need to stay at home and be housewifes while the male provides also he can have some ass on the side. Ok. To this day, when a female knows her man is wanted by others it makes her love him more, wheather or not he actually has sex with others is unimportant to her. And with men its the opposite, the more they feel shes ****ing around, the less they love her. Its how ****s supposed to be. Why do we have these chumps, who, when they notice their girl is partying and flirtin with other men, they try harder to make her happy. Lol. **** them. Srsly. A man has to break it off when disrespect arises its your job. But no. Too many males with ***** thinking. I was never like that. But it comes from the fact the female is unhappy with herself, not with her man, no matter how he puts it and too many men cant grasp this. So dont deal with unhappy people - the only way to keep them in check is to treat them worse than you treat your worst enemy. But is this existance gratifying? Do you deserve this?

This is not eaxactly true in nature look at lions, yes they are predators, we eat everything, but still its the females who hunt. Anyway, this sexism and schouvinism isnt gone, but it works in favour of females now - couse the only thing they need to catch a male is looks, while they put is through numerous tests and stuff to assess personality, qualities, status etc etc. So sexes are not equal. You need to have criterias other than looks when assesing women otherwise you will get burnt like a tard over and over again, so that sexes truely equalise themselves. So that both sexes are judged the same. But no, meek chumps **** everything up by acting according to beliefs which became outdated ages ago.

The best couples from the people I know have kids but are not married so this is the way to do it nowadays it keeps both in check the same way marriage did it earier.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Lol so many negative nancies

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

It isn't 99%. That's outrageous, even in the west. The highest is the US having a divorce rate somewhere between 50% - 52% I believe.

I choose to get married knowing full well the risks, hence making her fall head over heels for me thus being able to get her sign a prenup. The thing is though, I will never ever be able to love like how I once was able to. That is the only downside to it. But now I will be able to progress myself further and faster than ever before and actually have a girl love me, AND not have nearly as many issues as other couples do. I won't have the issues that my parents, grandparents, and every other couple did, thanks to this place. :rock:

What would I do without you guys.......

 

[zekko]

I won't get married again because the odds are against you. Chances are either you will end up divorced, or unhappy. There ARE those who do it successfully, so don't be mistaken that everybody married is miserable, because that is not true. I think the ones that succeed are very family-oriented people, and they have children and see it as building a family. Beyond that I have no idea how some people manage to make it work and others can't.

But like I said, the odds are against you, it's a bad risk. In ages past, the life expectancy was low so that people didn't end up spending decades and decades together until they got sick of each other. That's one of the challenges to being married in the modern world.

 

[skinnyguy]

Honestly I don't want to end up 40 and single.

That seems like hell to me. What am I going to do - troll POF and the bars every weekend? Live like a 22 year old?

Family can bring great joy in life if you want it. If you just want to slay HB's your whole life that's fine, but if you're single in your 40's you'll be damn lonely. Also people will think there is something wrong with you and it will hinder your advancement at work. Having a wife is social proof. 100% of the people I work for are married and they make much more money than I do.

 

[Albatross953]

All due respect skinny guy, but you know what's even lonlier? Being 40 and divorced. Or being 40 and married to a woman who hates you.

You want to get married? Choose wisely. Like one in a million wisely.

 

[guru1000]

I'm 40, divorced, and loving life right now ...

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Honestly I don't want to end up 40 and single.

That seems like hell to me. What am I going to do - troll POF and the bars every weekend? Live like a 22 year old?

Family can bring great joy in life if you want it. If you just want to slay HB's your whole life that's fine, but if you're single in your 40's you'll be damn lonely. Also people will think there is something wrong with you and it will hinder your advancement at work. Having a wife is social proof. 100% of the people I work for are married and they make much more money than I do.

They do want a wife. They are just in butthurt mode right now. Most are just one ******* away from being so called blue pilled.

 

[mikey2012]

Lol. If your life revolves around family/kids you will surely be fuked coz unless you are rich you will probably lose your job when you are in your 40s with your kids still around 10 so you will have to grind it out somewhere untl they are 18 then when they are you will be around 50 and they would have left you maybe phone you on your birthday and you will be unemployed and miserable with a wife that hates you coz you can't provide for her.. With her ultimately divorcing you...

 

[Zarky]

I do think, however, there is value in finding someone to spend your life with when the time is right.

Unless, of course, she leaves you. Then there's actually negative value in it. :crackup:

Divorce is one of the top wealth destroyers. http://researchnews.osu.edu/archive/divwlth.htm

Of course, if you're one of the guys who thinks he can "marry well," "be a good husband," and ensure that his wife will never leave him... get back to us in 20 years

 

[zekko]

Lol. If your life revolves around family/kids you will surely be fuked coz unless you are rich you will probably lose your job when you are in your 40s with your kids still around 10 so you will have to grind it out somewhere untl they are 18 then when they are you will be around 50 and they would have left you maybe phone you on your birthday and you will be unemployed and miserable with a wife that hates you coz you can't provide for her.. With her ultimately divorcing you...

Damn, pessimistic much?

Divorce is one of the top wealth destroyers.

That's why I just cohabitate with my girlfriend, and won't get married.

Of course, if you're one of the guys who thinks he can "marry well," "be a good husband," and ensure that his wife will never leave him... get back to us in 20 years

Or maybe you are one of these guys who thinks he can be so "alpha" that his wife will never leave him. Lol, again, get back to us in 20 years.

 

[mikey2012]

Not against marrying a woman who is richer than me...but then that would never happen. The truth hurts but I guess you will find out the hard way. Btw I'm not divorced.

 

[badboyjmm]

There's a documentary called DivorceCorp, it really puts things into perspective. My main issue with marriage, divorce. As a man the divorce will never be fair, especially if there's kids in the mix. Also a pre-nup can be dismissed in court.

So unless they change the laws for divorce to make it equal for both man and woman (which I doubt will happen because it's too beneficial for lawyers, attorneys and females, I will not get married.

 

[old married dude]

I'm 40, divorced, and loving life right now ...

Yeah same here. I really enjoy my freedom & independence.

 

[mikey2012]

People who get married want to share their life with someone special until they find out that that someone ain't that special.

I'm alone but not lonely.....Neil from the movie
"Heat"

 

[the_stig]

For every happily married man I know, there are 3-4 who are absolutely miserable. I've got buddies who have to ask permission just to go out much less buy something and that drives me nuts!!

I'd be tickled pink if I found a loyal woman who shared my hobbies and passions. Problem is.. I've worked my tail off for what I've got and would be devistated to lose it. I'll be on track to have a modest house paid for by the time I'm 35, own a few appreciating collector cars, and have several other investments that happen to be enjoyable hobbies. I'm not wealthy by any means but could easily get "cleaned out". Marriage shouldn't have to be a risk, yet a man gambles everything when he takes those vows.