"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most of you dont deserve girls. You're schemers.I had to warn them

Boilermaker

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hahaha
what a big troll..

Yeah, we seduce them, we trick them and we fvck them.

And then they turn back to manginas like you to complain about us.

Except that you sleazy invertebrates also try slip into their pants, with the only difference that your strategy is to roll over and hope that they will sleep with you one day. Because you have been "there" for them, am I right?

Who is the real schemer here, you moron?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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And here we were thinking black jews would be well liked.
 

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We can make all the "hamster brain" references we like, but the bottom line is women aren't stupid.

I/we might not agree with everything they do, but they know exactly what they want and are doing. I chuckle when newbies say "She doesn't know what she wants."

We aren't manipulating them. They are willing participants as Floyd said.
 

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MisterD said:
A combination of words and actions ARE what makes a woman like you. What else is there besides words and actions?

This forum is merely a place where men can learn what works and what doesn't when it comes to attracting women.

Most of us here tried the nice guy thing. Didn't work.

When women stop being shallow and hypergamous, when they stop acting entitled, when they stop dating douchebags and start dating nice guys, then the skills learned here will be obsolete and everything will be right with the world. The fact is, that won't happen. Girls won't change. The stuff here works because women allow it to.

Spot on !:)
 

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I think you also have to look at the kind of women guys on here are going for. Yea, they keep saying "women", as if its all of them, but its usually a certain type. No different from the girls chasing after bad boys and what not. Theyre usually the same type, actually. Just listen to the whining that goes on, and it becomes pretty clear.

Whats basically happening is, guys are chasing after women who are already experienced and know the game. Many of whom are players, and revolve their lives around this crap. They KNOW theyre in demand. Hence why they frequent bars and parties, are obsessed with status, are fake and shallow, jump from guy to guy, **** around, dress flashy, love money, have orbiters and doormats, play games and manipulate men, believe to be of high class (hence the entitlement, flaking, immediate loss of interest, and rediculous standards), are highly sought after, and so forth. Sure, the guys complain, but thats because theyre idiots. Its all right here - on virtually every post and rant. This is who theyre chasing after and complaining about.

So, by warning these women - not that its even possible - youre not accomplishing anything. They already cheat, use, lie, decieve, manipulate, conive, and are full into this lifestyle. Youre just sympathazing with losers, is all.

These guys are NOT chasing after innocent nice girls. They chase after players, try to play them, then complain about being played. Thus, no one is innocent.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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floydb25 said:
Whats basically happening is, guys are chasing after women who are already experienced and know the game. Many of whom are players, and revolve their lives around this crap. They KNOW theyre in demand. Hence why they frequent bars and parties, are obsessed with status, are fake and shallow, jump from guy to guy, **** around, dress flashy, love money, have orbiters and doormats, play games and manipulate men, believe to be of high class (hence the entitlement, flaking, immediate loss of interest, and rediculous standards), are highly sought after, and so forth. Sure, the guys complain, but thats because theyre idiots. Its all right here - on virtually every post and rant. This is who theyre chasing after and complaining about.

So, by warning these women - not that its even possible - youre not accomplishing anything. They already cheat, use, lie, decieve, manipulate, conive, and are full into this lifestyle. Youre just sympathazing with losers, is all.

These guys are NOT chasing after innocent nice girls. They chase after players, try to play them, then complain about being played. Thus, no one is innocent.
Floyd spot on...

But the thing is, unless you are chasing 16 year olds....or even younger nowadays.....most girls even remotely attractive will have tons of male attention in high school...which means she will start developing her arrogance then when she's 16

...facebook will allow here to multiply this attention 100X...any hot 16 year old will have 30 dudes chasing her....so by the time she's 18 and in college the hottie will be ready to gangbang foot ball players and friendzone nerds to do her homework.

that is the real problem today...you have to play the slvt game...because all the hotties have been gamed since they were 15....

if you want to step below hb6 chicks maybe you can get a good one...but even 6s are arrogant nowadays...
 

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Burroughs said:
Floyd spot on...

But the thing is, unless you are chasing 16 year olds....or even younger nowadays.....most girls even remotely attractive will have tons of male attention in high school...which means she will start developing her arrogance then when she's 16

...facebook will allow here to multiply this attention 100X...any hot 16 year old will have 30 dudes chasing her....so by the time she's 18 and in college the hottie will be ready to gangbang foot ball players and friendzone nerds to do her homework.

that is the real problem today...you have to play the slvt game...because all the hotties have been gamed since they were 15.... if you want to step below hb6 chicks maybe you can get a good one...but even 6s are arrogant nowadays...
Burroughs and Floyd, your 2 posts here shoud be in the Dj bible as quotes, I wonder why that doesn´t exist yet. There should be a book of quotes. Give these women a hard time, don´t drool over them, don´t do things for them just because they have a big a$$! Stop feeding the troll!!!

These women may have facesh!t to boost their ego, but men have sosuave! As the quote says:

"When the going gets tough, the tough get going."
:rockon:
 

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@ Toast123

..and why may I ask are you here? Apparently 'your' way of picking up gals isn't working well either.

Loser
 

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As an American with Dutch decent...

OP is still a f@ggot.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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bradd80 said:
toast123 is the ultimate AFC and white knight. He'll be one of those guys who's wife divorces him and takes all his sh*t. Then he'll come back here complaining to us about what an ungrateful b*tch she was all the while wondering what the hell happened.
He is neither of those things. He's just a troll.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Instead of bashing this 'Israeli of African descent'. How about we don't give a fvck about this guy and close this thread?
 

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no-one should have posted anymore after I replied "did someone say something?" just silence, like going ghost on a chick .....

saying nothing sometimes is better than saying anything at all.....
 
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