"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most obvious come-on that was NOT missed

DJnoob

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I used to work at a coffeee shop.

This co worker of mine comes to buy coffee with her friend.

I finish making her drink then I asked her "wheres my tip" with a smile

She goes "why dont you come over to my house and Ill give you your tip"

Me: "see you there at 9"
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Julian

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Dude if you are gonna start a thread like this you gotta share an experience first you trick ass sucka!
 

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today actually:

her: oh please you couldnt show me any new tricks my past 15 ****s haven't
me: 15?!? [astonished disgusted look]
her: yeah 15
me: thats a lot
her: you could be the next one
 
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