"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Most obvious come-on that was NOT missed

DJnoob

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I used to work at a coffeee shop.

This co worker of mine comes to buy coffee with her friend.

I finish making her drink then I asked her "wheres my tip" with a smile

She goes "why dont you come over to my house and Ill give you your tip"

Me: "see you there at 9"
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude if you are gonna start a thread like this you gotta share an experience first you trick ass sucka!
 

oda

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today actually:

her: oh please you couldnt show me any new tricks my past 15 ****s haven't
me: 15?!? [astonished disgusted look]
her: yeah 15
me: thats a lot
her: you could be the next one
 
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