"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Most obvious come-on that was NOT missed

DJnoob

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I used to work at a coffeee shop.

This co worker of mine comes to buy coffee with her friend.

I finish making her drink then I asked her "wheres my tip" with a smile

She goes "why dont you come over to my house and Ill give you your tip"

Me: "see you there at 9"
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude if you are gonna start a thread like this you gotta share an experience first you trick ass sucka!
 

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today actually:

her: oh please you couldnt show me any new tricks my past 15 ****s haven't
me: 15?!? [astonished disgusted look]
her: yeah 15
me: thats a lot
her: you could be the next one
 
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