"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most motivational topic EVER!!!

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Get this, the most motivational thing you'll ever read. Even more so than imagining you were going to die.

So, you're having doubts about talking, calling, asking out, or anything with any girl. So, just think for a minute, hat happens if you wait until later? Somebody else will take YOUR opportunity, no, not JUST somebody else, your brother! (Or this guy http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a140/TorontoTory/03_PRO.jpg)
If being rejected hurts and not trying hurts more, wouldn't this be worse??? HELL YEA IT WOULD!!!

Just take a minute and imagine that JUST happened to you. You'd die a little inside! Why? Because your lame older brother (or that guy, lol) took YOUR opportunity!

I can personally say this is effective because it ALMOST happened to me. Liz, the chick that is a sure thing for me :), was standing infront of me and my brother and he was checking her out!!! It got me thinking, what if he actually asked her out??? Thankfully for me, he doesn't have the balls to, but if he did.....

So, that's it, either kill your doubt, or watch the thing you would like get taken by some loser, because it WILL happen if you don't do anything!

If you act now and talk to her, you'll get to meet a potential (insert what you want out of a girl here) and a 100% acceptance from her booster, because if you don't try, the answer IS no!

Shapoopie out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes, indeed very wise words! You should always consider the consequences of NOT acting!

However, I have to say I was p!ssing myself laughing at your choice of picture here:

Shapoopie said:
(Or this guy http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a140/TorontoTory/03_PRO.jpg)
If being rejected hurts and not trying hurts more, wouldn't this be worse??? HELL YEA IT WOULD!!!
Who the hell is he and why did you choose him to demonstrate your point? :crackup:
 

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Jariel, I don't know who he is or anything like that. I google image searched "ugly man" (no offense intended) and because I use humor in my writing and no words could make my writing funny now cuz this just happened at church, no joke, I chose a picture. (presentation is half the battle, no joke again) I figured he was the best choice in a minute search.
 

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Mr. Mod dudecould you move this to the tips section?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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