"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Most Insane Thing I've Seen

Starfvcks 64

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I have (had) been seeing this one college girl a few times a month since August. Three weeks ago she went home for Xmas break.
Tonight she got back to town, hit me up, and I went over after work.
She's looking real good, with a new hair color and clothes.

We fvck right away, then I decide to go out and get some drinks with her since I want to see what's going on in town.
We're at a bar/restaurant talking about something that I can't remember specifically. She takes her iPhone out and I look something up on Wikipedia to answer some question we were trying to figure out.

To take a screenshot of something on an iPhone you hold the power button and the menu button, which I accidentally did while handing her phone back.
Out of habit I went to delete it, and she quickly snatched the phone out of my hand.

Before she pulls it from my hands, the screen displays her most recent pictures. I wasn't interested in the pictures but I couldn't help but notice a very suspicious picture out of the corner of my eye.
"Who is that in your picture? She looks like someone I know."
The reason I asked this was because it looked very similar to an old Facebook profile pic of my oneitis ex GF. I'd know, since I used to see that picture every day.

I stayed calm as she quickly scrolled through her pictures, nervously saying "it's a picture of me"
"ooh let me see it"
She makes it full screen, and it is a picture of her, imitating the exact pose of that old profile pic of a girl she's never even met.
Without making a big deal of it, I quickly scroll to the previous pic and, creepy as it seems, it actually was the picture of my ex.

Her new hair color matches perfectly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Ever seen the movie "Single White Female"?

Good luck.
 

m7ytn

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"You unlock this door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension— a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind. You're moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas. You've just crossed over into the Twilight Zone."
 

sylvester the cat

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I just let a girl use my laptop with my facebook logged in and then checked the history. Apparently she stalked every women, especially ones I had pictures with like exes, in my messages haha. She then apparently had convos with men and women on her own profile at the rate of 5 men per 1 woman so we can guess what kind of girl this is.
a normal one?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Starfvcks 64

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She had to do some serious research since I'm not friends with her or my ex on FB.

In a way it's kind of sad I'm gonna drop her, since all she wanted to do was make me happy.
In a very disturbing way.
 

MtnMan

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wow, insane man. That would be a boner kill for me. There is a certain level of insanity that cannot be ignored.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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