"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most Insane Thing I've Seen

Starfvcks 64

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I have (had) been seeing this one college girl a few times a month since August. Three weeks ago she went home for Xmas break.
Tonight she got back to town, hit me up, and I went over after work.
She's looking real good, with a new hair color and clothes.

We fvck right away, then I decide to go out and get some drinks with her since I want to see what's going on in town.
We're at a bar/restaurant talking about something that I can't remember specifically. She takes her iPhone out and I look something up on Wikipedia to answer some question we were trying to figure out.

To take a screenshot of something on an iPhone you hold the power button and the menu button, which I accidentally did while handing her phone back.
Out of habit I went to delete it, and she quickly snatched the phone out of my hand.

Before she pulls it from my hands, the screen displays her most recent pictures. I wasn't interested in the pictures but I couldn't help but notice a very suspicious picture out of the corner of my eye.
"Who is that in your picture? She looks like someone I know."
The reason I asked this was because it looked very similar to an old Facebook profile pic of my oneitis ex GF. I'd know, since I used to see that picture every day.

I stayed calm as she quickly scrolled through her pictures, nervously saying "it's a picture of me"
"ooh let me see it"
She makes it full screen, and it is a picture of her, imitating the exact pose of that old profile pic of a girl she's never even met.
Without making a big deal of it, I quickly scroll to the previous pic and, creepy as it seems, it actually was the picture of my ex.

Her new hair color matches perfectly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Ever seen the movie "Single White Female"?

Good luck.
 

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"You unlock this door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension— a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind. You're moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas. You've just crossed over into the Twilight Zone."
 

sylvester the cat

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I just let a girl use my laptop with my facebook logged in and then checked the history. Apparently she stalked every women, especially ones I had pictures with like exes, in my messages haha. She then apparently had convos with men and women on her own profile at the rate of 5 men per 1 woman so we can guess what kind of girl this is.
a normal one?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Starfvcks 64

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She had to do some serious research since I'm not friends with her or my ex on FB.

In a way it's kind of sad I'm gonna drop her, since all she wanted to do was make me happy.
In a very disturbing way.
 

MtnMan

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wow, insane man. That would be a boner kill for me. There is a certain level of insanity that cannot be ignored.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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