Originally posted by seabreeze
So, would you guys stay in a relationship with a woman who was great in all of the areas but sex? Or how hard would you work to stay in a relationship with a woman who was your best friend and confidante, but not your ideal sexual partner?
First of all, I would never want to work hard to stay in a relationship. It is either going to work naturally with out me trying or I'm not going to stay around.
what do you mean by best friend and confidante? As a man I don't want a woman to be my best friend or a confidante. I'm not interested in being an emotional tampon. I want a woman for her love. So if you were to ask me if I would stay in a relationship with a woman for love over sex then the answer would be yes. It is just common sense that love is more important then sex.
It seems to me that men are sometimes willing to give up a lot of the relational stuff for fantastic sex whether they want to admit it or not. I've noticed that men seem captivated by crazy, emotionally unstable women who are beautiful and give them awesome sexual experiences. They marry the stable ones and cheat on them with or fantasize about the sexy, crazy ones. True?
SB
Men are captivated by attractive women. It is in our nature to admire and get honey over women. There is nothing wrong with that. We also like women who act like females. As a man I expect a woman to be unstable and a bit crazy. Is that not what PMS does? All women are that way regardless of how they look or how fat they are. Personally, I like women who cry on my shoulder and who need emotional support. It makes me feel good when I can console her. Isn't that one of the reasons a woman needs a man? if she isn't emotional then she is a robot or some kind of femanazi freak of nature who doesn't need a man.
I do wish you wouldn't make such bitter statements about men.
Why would you say that men marry stable ones and then cheat on them? That just isn't true. Women cheat on their husbands just as often.
A man will fantasize about other women for the rest of his life. I can tell you that every time I meet a woman I think, "would I f-cuk her". That question crosses every mans’ mind all the time. Does that mean that he doesn't love the girl he is with? No it doesn't. It is just a natural instinct.
Some of the women I know have nicer asses then the one I’m dating, but would I cheat on her? No. I would never do such a thing. A real man takes an oath and his word of honor seriously.
REAL men don't cheat on their women regardless of the fact that they admire sexy girls.
There are very few men who would chose sex over true love. A lot of men know that sex plays a part in love. We believe that if a woman loves us then she will gladly give herself to us on a regular basis. When a woman **** blocks it is a sign that her love is fading or that she is PMSing. So remember when you say no to sex you are also saying, "No I don't love you"
Men marry women who take an oath just as seriously as they do. Some men use sluts for what they are. If a man needs to have sex he won't taint a good woman or break her heart. He will find a slut who is used of it, use her for it, and then forget about her. The good thing about this is that men are honest about what they are looking for.
