"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most guys aren't horny enough

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bigneil said:
Exactly. If you had all the women you wanted you'd be getting laid 3 times a day, so you'd be less needy/horny.

I highly doubt any women have ever used the word "horny" when describing what they liked about a man they just met.
When did I say anything remotely close to telling these girls I was horny?? You completely OVER ANALYZED my post. That's what the pickup community has programmed you to do. You took what I said, and twisted it into your own delusions of grandeur. There was another guy who agreed with you. I want you both to re-read my post.

Not ONCE did I say I was trying to convey being horny to a girl. You just completely missed the plot.

spinaroonie said:
Funny to see guys still crowing about getting numbers.

Girls give out numbers like candy on Halloween.

Let us know when you bang them.
Your reading comprehension skills needs some work. What you said had nothing to do with the direction of my post.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good post and true in my experience. Besides that being horny for the girl & making her horny is a huge factor in having success.
 

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pdx1138 said:
agreed, numbers don't mean much in reality....but it's a nice ego booster if nothing else comes of it.
Yeah, since virtually all of the numbers are either fake or flakes...fake fLake, get it, lol! The girl say, let me give him a number, looks like he's trying, out of pity.
 

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yuppaz said:
Good post and true in my experience. Besides that being horny for the girl & making her horny is a huge factor in having success.
Yeah but I think OP was hinting that being HORNY may be contagious. If you're horny, she'll get horny too so to speak.

Doesn't make the least bit of sense (when I think about it), but who knows.
 

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Yah I'm not down for jacking off, I think that energy can be used for getting girls. I like the attitude of some guys, it is fun and exciting and I'm getting better everyday. I think this dude in my house is trying to compete with me. I am going to destroy him.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yah I'm not down for jacking off, I think that energy can be used for getting girls. I like the attitude of some guys, it is fun and exciting and I'm getting better everyday. I think this dude in my house is trying to compete with me. I am going to destroy him.
You're not talking about your dad, right? :eek:
 

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DonGorgon said:
um most guys are too horny which is why women have soooo much power..
Totally correct and those that are not horny are eager of validation, with the same conseguence.
 

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Tyson - try it man. Be talking to some girl and just imagine yourself f*(king the sh*t out of her. Will fix a lot of holes in a lot of dudes game..... If you get wood, your doin good. Means your relaxed and cool with f&*king the girl.... all that Pook sh*t about sexuality is key was right. Read gunwitch too, he may be completely f*cked in the head now but he was right about his early pickup stuff.
 

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actually, usually the horniness in me is kind of depressing. Trust me I do get horny but it's more like anxiety. It's more vicious, kind of like I want to rape. But I can't do that obviously.

So Im not so sure if it's just "horniness". Your horniness is probably more managable, or you know how to manage it better than I do.
 

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Zone that's pretty f*cked up dude. That's not expressing sexuality in a healthy way at all. If your new to trying to have more success with women you may have strange subconscious views on sex until you get more experience & find more peace with your boner. Find a healthy balance
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheZone said:
actually, usually the horniness in me is kind of depressing. Trust me I do get horny but it's more like anxiety. It's more vicious, kind of like I want to rape. But I can't do that obviously.

So Im not so sure if it's just "horniness". Your horniness is probably more managable, or you know how to manage it better than I do.
That's called desperation. It's because you suffer from self esteem issues. You haven't been able to score with a nice girl so you view yourself as worthless.

This is NOT the case. Change your environment if you want to find better women and better people.
 

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when young,if you're beta, the girls will make you feel like it's wrong to have normal sexual, and even non-sexual feelings towards any woman. Like it's amoral, and with a hint of feminist misandry. But then you see dude being explicit and vulgar with her, doing things way worse than you ever did,uncautiously, unapologeticaly and she's in unicorn land because she likes the adrenaline. She likes thrill. In fact she silently participates in thegame of torture the beta males, make sure he suffers watching this, the guy gets a thrill it seems, a rush by feeding off of his brutal domination, giving it to his friends' girl-friend.

So I mean really, it's not even rape that I feel. It's that I feel like it's wrong to have sexual urges but then again, it comes out viciously,or atleast with much shame, like it's wrong. I feel like a perv pretty much, as that's how women make you feel like when your young. You never get to associate it with something good when you are never let to properly express yourself. So I'm practically a virgin.

Nothing but brutal sexual reality. Sex is "immoral,wrong", etc. only bad boys get *****. The betas get to twiddle their thumbs feeling like weirdos slowly (or quickly) going mad with frustration, because they don't want to Brutally Enforce his will on a woman as she expects.

She puts up a ***** shield so that only the most hardcore brute who is uncautious gets to her, she will need to submit. Only brute force will make her submit. Of course it's subtle, it's not like through violence, tho it seems, you just do it with manipulation and deception. Deception to her is sexy and hot. Busting her balls is hot. Making fun of her and treating her like a ***** is hot, because it makes her feel alive to know thatshe's not with a beta loser, instead she's with a bad-ass criminal.
 

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TheZone said:
when young,if you're beta, the girls will make you feel like it's wrong to have normal sexual, and even non-sexual feelings towards any woman. Like it's amoral, and with a hint of feminist misandry. But then you see dude being explicit and vulgar with her, doing things way worse than you ever did,uncautiously, unapologeticaly and she's in unicorn land because she likes the adrenaline. She likes thrill. In fact she silently participates in thegame of torture the beta males, make sure he suffers watching this, the guy gets a thrill it seems, a rush by feeding off of his brutal domination, giving it to his friends' girl-friend.

So I mean really, it's not even rape that I feel. It's that I feel like it's wrong to have sexual urges but then again, it comes out viciously,or atleast with much shame, like it's wrong. I feel like a perv pretty much, as that's how women make you feel like when your young. You never get to associate it with something good when you are never let to properly express yourself. So I'm practically a virgin.

Nothing but brutal sexual reality. Sex is "immoral,wrong", etc. only bad boys get *****. The betas get to twiddle their thumbs feeling like weirdos slowly (or quickly) going mad with frustration, because they don't want to Brutally Enforce his will on a woman as she expects.

She puts up a ***** shield so that only the most hardcore brute who is uncautious gets to her, she will need to submit. Only brute force will make her submit. Of course it's subtle, it's not like through violence, tho it seems, you just do it with manipulation and deception. Deception to her is sexy and hot. Busting her balls is hot. Making fun of her and treating her like a ***** is hot, because it makes her feel alive to know thatshe's not with a beta loser, instead she's with a bad-ass criminal.

Exactly and which explains why you see these big, fat and bald tatoo ridden tough guys hand and hand with really fine, feminine and sexy women.
 

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I think mainly it's just that these "bad boys" just make her feel horny and associate sexual feelings with the man before she can put up her ***** shield of in a way that penetrates through it, even if it's in a brutish way.. once she metaphorically get's tickled (energetically through her erogenous parts) she's in unicorn land" and it doesn't matter who/what is doing the tickling. I say unicorn land but that's how it seems on the outside on the inside she's probably more vulgar than men. Perhaps even expressed in "good" way to herself. What seems bad to a man is probably "beautiful" to her.
 

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like Kino does I would assume. Except moreso, that a woman ALSO sees brute force as genuine confidence, cannot tell the difference between the two.

Obviously if ther eis any hesitation and that means there is fear, even if it is WELL MEANT she does not appreciate it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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