"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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most good looking gals have bfs

Freeman

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Re: Re: well put!

Originally posted by joe45
well yea then get beat up that is just great

Joe-Joe...You obviously got a lot to learn about women---More than what I do. i tried to help you out...So you're afraid that some girl's bf is going F=== you up for trying to talking to his girl? You sound like a wuss to me man..Anybody else agrees?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by PoloBlue
if she's not married I consider her available, so what if she see's other guys, just because she has a boyfriend doesnt mean they are engaged.

a guy should also have several girlfriends and never get attached

this is good advice. Yes most hot girls have boyfriends. But when you the DJ comes along they think about breaking up with them.
 
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