"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most Fvcked-up Game Shes Played?

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What would you say is the most ****ed up game a chick as every played with you mind?from AFC days to current-day-DJ?

For example, in my changing process of getting passed my oneitis of a girl at a different school.We'll call her M. She had a bf and had ditched me, so I thoguht "**** that, if M can't feel this wya for me, why should I for her?"
And when I had hungout with M, her best friend[hott!] and a mutual guy friend, M's best friend felt that I was still attracted to M, so her best friend got competitive.
within the end of the week I had gone to the movies with M's best friend and gotten some ***** :D
But then **** went to hell. M's best friend told M what'd done and how far we'd gone[I never even hooked up with M]..cause she thoguh M wouldn't care. M, beign the drama-***** she was cried n said she was torn apart and all thsi bull****. So I told M i would forget ehr friend if she left her bf for me.
Girls=*****s. M took this as she had won[in ehr lil ****ed up game] and then told her friend, ruining my chances of a good relationship and TONS of *****,c aus this girl...she put out man.
**** M. lol

so yes, whats yours?

EDIT:and thanks to me, they now are no long friends. Go me. hahaha
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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u ****ed up ****, you left one girl for the promise of her best friend. What the ****. Actually your not that ****ed up, jsut naive :D. Dont trust her, dont split up a good thing going, till you got something fro mthe otehr ho. Words are cheap.
 

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haha yeha i know i ****e dup. That was a year ago man, like September of last year lol.
You gotta have a bad game soem ***** pulled when u were an afc or progressing?
 

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A chicks never fukked me over but I have shamelessly put countless girls in tears.
 

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I think most times...not ALL the time but sometimes, that we (us guys) beat ourselves down and like to blame it on the women.

I can't think of how many countless times I've heard guys say.."She played me, she was showing me all these signals, exc."

When in reality the girl was just being nice. Like I said though, this is not the case 100% of the time. I know some women who like nothing better to do than tease men.


Just wanted to add a lil bit of debating to the post :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thats true, but when she cries one night becaus ei messed with ehr best friend and I tlel ehr I'd give up ehr best friend for her, and she brightens up, mintues later to go bakc into her "I love austin" mode...
kinda shows she just wanted an ego boost. and then used it to **** me over even further.
But yes I do agree with you on that. This was way passed the signals-stage and whatnot though.

If no one else has any bad games a chicks played..might as well let this thread die.
 
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