"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most Fvcked-up Game Shes Played?

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What would you say is the most ****ed up game a chick as every played with you mind?from AFC days to current-day-DJ?

For example, in my changing process of getting passed my oneitis of a girl at a different school.We'll call her M. She had a bf and had ditched me, so I thoguht "**** that, if M can't feel this wya for me, why should I for her?"
And when I had hungout with M, her best friend[hott!] and a mutual guy friend, M's best friend felt that I was still attracted to M, so her best friend got competitive.
within the end of the week I had gone to the movies with M's best friend and gotten some ***** :D
But then **** went to hell. M's best friend told M what'd done and how far we'd gone[I never even hooked up with M]..cause she thoguh M wouldn't care. M, beign the drama-***** she was cried n said she was torn apart and all thsi bull****. So I told M i would forget ehr friend if she left her bf for me.
Girls=*****s. M took this as she had won[in ehr lil ****ed up game] and then told her friend, ruining my chances of a good relationship and TONS of *****,c aus this girl...she put out man.
**** M. lol

so yes, whats yours?

EDIT:and thanks to me, they now are no long friends. Go me. hahaha
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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u ****ed up ****, you left one girl for the promise of her best friend. What the ****. Actually your not that ****ed up, jsut naive :D. Dont trust her, dont split up a good thing going, till you got something fro mthe otehr ho. Words are cheap.
 

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haha yeha i know i ****e dup. That was a year ago man, like September of last year lol.
You gotta have a bad game soem ***** pulled when u were an afc or progressing?
 

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A chicks never fukked me over but I have shamelessly put countless girls in tears.
 

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I think most times...not ALL the time but sometimes, that we (us guys) beat ourselves down and like to blame it on the women.

I can't think of how many countless times I've heard guys say.."She played me, she was showing me all these signals, exc."

When in reality the girl was just being nice. Like I said though, this is not the case 100% of the time. I know some women who like nothing better to do than tease men.


Just wanted to add a lil bit of debating to the post :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thats true, but when she cries one night becaus ei messed with ehr best friend and I tlel ehr I'd give up ehr best friend for her, and she brightens up, mintues later to go bakc into her "I love austin" mode...
kinda shows she just wanted an ego boost. and then used it to **** me over even further.
But yes I do agree with you on that. This was way passed the signals-stage and whatnot though.

If no one else has any bad games a chicks played..might as well let this thread die.
 
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