"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Art of Love by Ovid

The Art of Love playfully instructed women in the art of seduction and men in the skills essential for mastering the art of romantic conquest.

"Should anyone here not know the art of love read this, and learn by reading how to love. By art the boat’s set gliding, with oar and sail, by art the chariot’s swift: love’s ruled by art.", Ovid
The book was described as an "immoral book" representing the art of love as "the adulterer's art rather than the husband's art" by Irish writer H. Montgomery Hyde in A History of Pornography. But the book won the praise of Renaissance humanists.
I plan to acquire it and I will be posting any interesting info.

Btw, who heard of this book?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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that is nice, but it will be all poetic and art-focused, not content focused. The advice will suffer based on artistic merit. Form over function, i doubt any useful information. Still could be interesting.
 

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If you can cypher through the poetry, I'm sure its good.

Keep in mind, I havne't read the book, but I've seen various quotes that come from the book.
 

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I heard of this book on the History Channel.
 

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Ovid has some ideas, but it's nothing we don't already know, like making cold approaches and dealing with rejection.He goes into detail about getting at married women by seducing or becoming friendly with their personal slaves and maids.

For it's time this was pretty controversial stuff, in the context that the emperor at the time was very family values(sound familar to anyone),anyway Ovid eventually got banished to the sticks were he died alone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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