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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

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Most disrespectful thing done by a woman?

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My own personal experience with complete utter disrespect.
I've been talking with, let's call her K, for a while now. She asks for exclusiveness last night during thanksgiving festivities, I agree to this. We part ways later that night as I have to make my way home for work the next morning. I get a call and she said she was going backroading with her best friend. No big deal, she tells me goodnight. I get a call from her at 5:00 am this morning right after I'm waking up from work. She just got done drinking, had gone to a party after backroading. Still not a huge deal, but she needs to grow up obviously. She continues to tell me she can't find her way out of our home fvcking town to make it to work 45 miles away where she has to be in 2 hours. Another level of drunk I guess? She continues to say she has to be honest and said that she played a game of strip poker with everyone at the party, and started begging for my forgiveness, said she didn't get naked and didn't do anything with anyone.
I literally just got out of a 9 hour relationship lol new personal record atleast?
 

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Wow man. When I hear more kind of that stories more I generally given up whole respect towards women! Really... That makes me sad! Nowadays its really common I think.
 

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A high interest woman won't disrespect you like that.

She clearly doesn't care a dam about you so it's a good thing this happened.
 

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Her - Anon, I love you.i really hope u see this and don't let one stupid tine ruin this
Me - Just get to work safe, I don't want to talk about it right now
Her - anon...,
Her - please give me a chance...
Me - I don't want to talk right now 'K'
Her - then when are we going to?
Me - sometime later
Her - I love you..
I did not respond
I should note that we have dated in the past.
 

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PipeDope said:
I literally just got out of a 9 hour relationship lol new personal record atleast?
lol :crackup:

i dont see any disrespect here though. she was honest. disrespect is when she doesn't talk and you find out from another source.
 

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lol :crackup:

i dont see any disrespect here though. she was honest. disrespect is when she doesn't talk and you find out from another source.
I can see your point, just being a ho?

I understand that you get stupid after drinking. But she drank for 17 hours before deciding she better head to work. I honestly think that, that bothers me more than playing a game of strip poker.
 

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She played a game of strip poker with some friends and wasn't naked, but she didn't sleep with anyone here. As far as you know anyway.

To be fair she probably only admitted it in case you find out about it from someone.
 

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PipeDope said:
I can see your point, just being a ho?

I understand that you get stupid after drinking. But she drank for 17 hours before deciding she better head to work. I honestly think that, that bothers me more than playing a game of strip poker.
how old is she? a teenager?

if you're not drinking for 17 hours before heading to work as a teenager then you have no heart or balls.

if she's mid-late 20's + then I would be concerned.
 

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LMFAO said:
She played a game of strip poker with some friends and wasn't naked, but she didn't sleep with anyone here. As far as you know anyway.

To be fair she probably only admitted it in case you find out about it from someone.
I agree completely on the admittance part. Is this not how the majority of woman handle situations though? If they know they can get away with something they find to be minor, why relay the information? I suppose men do this as well.
 

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how old is she? a teenager?

if you're not drinking for 17 hours before heading to work as a teenager then you have no heart or balls.

if she's mid-late 20's + then I would be concerned.
We are both 22, I am contractor in the oilfield and take my job very seriously. She goes to school full time and works full time as well as a dairy manager at a large grocery store chain.

I like to drink as much as the next person, but d@mn.
Will women use alcohol to justify shlt behavior and honestly think that it makes it okay? She's a super loyal and nice person til she gets too much alcohol in her system. Then she gets stupid and likes dry anal.
 

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PipeDope said:
We are both 22, I am contractor in the oilfield and take my job very seriously. She goes to school full time and works full time as well as a dairy manager at a large grocery store chain.

I like to drink as much as the next person, but d@mn.
Will women use alcohol to justify shlt behavior and honestly think that it makes it okay? She's a super loyal and nice person til she gets too much alcohol in her system. Then she gets stupid and likes dry anal.
My ex that lasted 2 months pulled that **** and that's what caused me to chimp at her through text. She repeatedly said she didn't do it, but she was drunk af. **** that ****.
 

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PipeDope said:
She's a super loyal and nice person til she gets too much alcohol in her system. Then she gets stupid and likes dry anal.
LMFAO.:crackup:
 

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When I first read original post I though K was an idiot, after reading thread maybe she isn't.

I know that I wouldn't appreciate my lass ringing me at 5am...seems like she digs you though :)

Most disrespectful thing a woman has done to me would probably be a woman I was in a relationship with in my AFC days. She was sleeping with her ex during our 3 month relationship.
 

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you should have acted like the strip poker thing was really sexy and naughty and you could have banged her right there, just keep her around for sex
 

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Had sex with two dudes and made me watch as they came in her face and ass
 

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I've written about it before. But I had a female take my best cooking pot pour water in it and use it to mop up my kitchen floor with it.:box: sh!t burned me up.. I knew right then that she wasn't a keeper later on (year later) she cheated on me. .
 

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mikey2012 said:
Had sex with two dudes and made me watch as they came in her face and ass
what do you mean 'made you watch'? were they holding a gun to your head? dude. seriously. why would you stand for this?
 

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mikey2012 said:
Had sex with two dudes and made me watch as they came in her face and ass
THIS !!... lol you really made me crack up..LMFAO,, the things you read here
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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