"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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most disrepectful thing a chic has ever done to you

johndylan

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well guys, talk about disrepect..

there's this chic that i have been getting all kinds of signals from for the pass couple of months and I have been working. anyways we go out and when them bar close at 2 we decide to go to a stripe club because we can still drink there. She acts like a complete bithc there, she kisses another girl, told me she's got to fcuk a black guy and runs off with some other guy to give dollars to stripers... are you kidding me! dude I wanted to kill this bithc. I fcuking left and have been a cold mother fcuker to her ever since...

she even had the nerver to tell me I've been acting wierd!

lets hear em boys!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cave dweller

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ok........

Hey,

Raise your standards........

Quit hanging around with sluts.

cave dweller
 

earthshyne

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Dating strippers and prostitutes is only for professionals. Don't try this at home. Sure, have fun - I have a great time with my stripper and hooker friends (don't sleep with them thoug) - but don't expect much, if anything, in the form of emotional payback.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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johndylan

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she's not a stripper we just went to a stripe bar, she might as well be though.... she's just a party girl
 

PRMoon

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Honestly no girl has every done anything disrespectful that I haven't either topped or deserved... I've been a bad boy.

Anyway I usually laugh when a girl disrespects me in some way, when you look at the big picture it, it's all really funny.
 

Mojo604

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Originally posted by PRMoon

Anyway I usually laugh when a girl disrespects me in some way, when you look at the big picture it, it's all really funny.
No **** hey :D ...who that fukc are they kidding.


I'd say just keep being a cold motherfugger to her.
ans he asks why u been acting weird lol...o the nerve o' the ***** ... thats funny ****
 

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physco gf dumped me day after prom.... was cheating on me before that tho...


this all being 2 weeks after I found her notebook with my name written with hearts all over it on every single page...

plus she also bought a new outfit for everytime she saw me... i never seen her in the same article of clothing once....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrHarris

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I'm sorry but I can see no benefit in hasing over past wrongs!

Can you?
 

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What she did at the strip bar was completely disrespectful. To me this looks like a test. She wanted to see what your reaction would be if she just went nuts. Remember, women do not think like men. I would have went over to her and said, "What is wrong with you, you are being completely disrespectful to me and yourself. I am leaving now, if you'd like to come with that's fine, otherwise I'll catch you later."

Never just leave a girl somewhere no matter how pissed you are at her. Don't be disrespectful right back, you're better then that. Let her know exactly how you feel and what your intentions are before you leave.

-Al
 
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