Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Most cops are alpha males?

stuka1939

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I think this is pretty accurate assesment.

Most cops I see around seem to have the typical tough military look with the square jawline and seem to have somewhat aggressive personalities.

I would imagine MOST cops do not have passive personalities because the job does not allow it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I notice that too. Its more common with the ones that were in the force for a couple years, i dont see that too much with new recruits i guess
 

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HandyAndy said:
I notice that too. Its more common with the ones that were in the force for a couple years, i dont see that too much with new recruits i guess
My roomate in college (there were 3 of us) is now a cop and he was the alpha male of the group. When he spoke we listened and he usually made all of the rules and suggestions.
 

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Yeah they don't let you join if you have a weak chin.
 

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It's true and it's not. Some cops are fat and slobish. The bulk of the alpha police type work north town vegas here. The others patrol henderson and southern highlands.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OK, this alpha thing gets used way too much around here.
Does anyone even know what it means.
It's a chicken or egg thing. Does that power breed alpha-ness, or does alpha-ness breed the seeker of the cop mentality.
For a cop, he must learn to ACT alpha if he is to survive, especially the big-city cops who will get eaten up and spit out if they show any weakness.

I worked in a bar that catered to cops (largest sheriff dept in the country) and I can safely say I don't think many of them were truly alpha. Sure, they were artificially enhanced alpha by virtue of of their job...but alpha at heart? Nah.

One of them got caught up in a little argument at another bar months after I stopped working there. He and the other dude took it outside and the other dude started kicking his ass. So this good alpha cop did what every alpha would do...pulled out his service revolver and shot the other dude. Alpha? Sure, whatever.

It's a lot like the guys here trying ACT alpha in order to get pvssy. Does that mean they ARE alpha?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Apparently they are "alpha"....at least in the bullying, *******, douchebag sort of way. A lot of them seem to get off by making people "respect their authoritay."

A little bitter about cops right now though...some guys I know here had guns pulled on them and were assaulted by so-called 'officers of the law' while standing on their own property. The crime? Leaving a neighbor's party. Not running, not trying to "escape," just casually walking back from a party down the street. On foot, mind you. Both were over 21 and didn't resist in the least.

Pig bastards. Good to see my tax dollars hard at work. :rolleyes:
 

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acab!! only americans get off to cops!!! america is just an amazing place. no wonder you need such sites to get the fattest most ultra-feminist hors on the planet!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3v5bnQKDzk
videos like that show you just how wussy america has become.
 

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aldaris said:
acab!! only americans get off to cops!!! america is just an amazing place. no wonder you need such sites to get the fattest most ultra-feminist hors on the planet!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3v5bnQKDzk
videos like that show you just how wussy america has become.
Actually, that video is testament to the lack of ethics and the criminal culture of some backwater countries.

Wow, some guys can riot at soccer games and tag up buildings? I'm impressed.

Back on topic - I doubt that all (or most) cops are alpha males. I'm sure many are, but many are also just putting on a macho act when they're on the job, which might not necessarily carry over to the way they live in their personal life.
 

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I think this guy is a perfect example of an alpha male, very authoritative. I especially like it when he says "Do you see how accidents can happen?- THEY HAPPEN!

Besides, a respected officer of the law would never do anything illegal, would they?

Cops in general are just an excellent example of what a man should be. Period. :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HandyAndy said:
Bull****...its entertainment not advertisement. How is the daily life of a cop propaganda?
Make them seem likable. Most people don't like the police.
 

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Zodiac said:
Make them seem likable. Most people don't like the police.
Why dont ppl like the police? Because theyre the idiots that get themselves into trouble? Cops dont get the respect they deserve and most people talking **** behind the computer screen are too big of pvssys to become cops so they talk all their crap to seem all tough, put that person in the middle of a fvcking firefight and he'll **** his pants
 

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HandyAndy said:
Why dont ppl like the police? Because theyre the idiots that get themselves into trouble? Cops dont get the respect they deserve and most people talking **** behind the computer screen are too big of pvssys to become cops so they talk all their crap to seem all tough, put that person in the middle of a fvcking firefight and he'll **** his pants

Ever spent a night in jail for no reason?

How 'bout prison?
 

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Aboleo said:
Ever spent a night in jail for no reason?

How 'bout prison?
16 year olds dont go to prison. And yes ive spend a night in jail for fighting, doesnt mean I dont like them. Have you? I doubt they arrested you out of nowhere, threw you in the back of a squad car and drove you off to jail.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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