"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Most cops are alpha males?

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I think this is pretty accurate assesment.

Most cops I see around seem to have the typical tough military look with the square jawline and seem to have somewhat aggressive personalities.

I would imagine MOST cops do not have passive personalities because the job does not allow it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I notice that too. Its more common with the ones that were in the force for a couple years, i dont see that too much with new recruits i guess
 

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HandyAndy said:
I notice that too. Its more common with the ones that were in the force for a couple years, i dont see that too much with new recruits i guess
My roomate in college (there were 3 of us) is now a cop and he was the alpha male of the group. When he spoke we listened and he usually made all of the rules and suggestions.
 

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Yeah they don't let you join if you have a weak chin.
 

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It's true and it's not. Some cops are fat and slobish. The bulk of the alpha police type work north town vegas here. The others patrol henderson and southern highlands.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK, this alpha thing gets used way too much around here.
Does anyone even know what it means.
It's a chicken or egg thing. Does that power breed alpha-ness, or does alpha-ness breed the seeker of the cop mentality.
For a cop, he must learn to ACT alpha if he is to survive, especially the big-city cops who will get eaten up and spit out if they show any weakness.

I worked in a bar that catered to cops (largest sheriff dept in the country) and I can safely say I don't think many of them were truly alpha. Sure, they were artificially enhanced alpha by virtue of of their job...but alpha at heart? Nah.

One of them got caught up in a little argument at another bar months after I stopped working there. He and the other dude took it outside and the other dude started kicking his ass. So this good alpha cop did what every alpha would do...pulled out his service revolver and shot the other dude. Alpha? Sure, whatever.

It's a lot like the guys here trying ACT alpha in order to get pvssy. Does that mean they ARE alpha?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Apparently they are "alpha"....at least in the bullying, *******, douchebag sort of way. A lot of them seem to get off by making people "respect their authoritay."

A little bitter about cops right now though...some guys I know here had guns pulled on them and were assaulted by so-called 'officers of the law' while standing on their own property. The crime? Leaving a neighbor's party. Not running, not trying to "escape," just casually walking back from a party down the street. On foot, mind you. Both were over 21 and didn't resist in the least.

Pig bastards. Good to see my tax dollars hard at work. :rolleyes:
 

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acab!! only americans get off to cops!!! america is just an amazing place. no wonder you need such sites to get the fattest most ultra-feminist hors on the planet!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3v5bnQKDzk
videos like that show you just how wussy america has become.
 

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aldaris said:
acab!! only americans get off to cops!!! america is just an amazing place. no wonder you need such sites to get the fattest most ultra-feminist hors on the planet!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3v5bnQKDzk
videos like that show you just how wussy america has become.
Actually, that video is testament to the lack of ethics and the criminal culture of some backwater countries.

Wow, some guys can riot at soccer games and tag up buildings? I'm impressed.

Back on topic - I doubt that all (or most) cops are alpha males. I'm sure many are, but many are also just putting on a macho act when they're on the job, which might not necessarily carry over to the way they live in their personal life.
 

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I think this guy is a perfect example of an alpha male, very authoritative. I especially like it when he says "Do you see how accidents can happen?- THEY HAPPEN!

Besides, a respected officer of the law would never do anything illegal, would they?

Cops in general are just an excellent example of what a man should be. Period. :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HandyAndy said:
Bull****...its entertainment not advertisement. How is the daily life of a cop propaganda?
Make them seem likable. Most people don't like the police.
 

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Zodiac said:
Make them seem likable. Most people don't like the police.
Why dont ppl like the police? Because theyre the idiots that get themselves into trouble? Cops dont get the respect they deserve and most people talking **** behind the computer screen are too big of pvssys to become cops so they talk all their crap to seem all tough, put that person in the middle of a fvcking firefight and he'll **** his pants
 

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HandyAndy said:
Why dont ppl like the police? Because theyre the idiots that get themselves into trouble? Cops dont get the respect they deserve and most people talking **** behind the computer screen are too big of pvssys to become cops so they talk all their crap to seem all tough, put that person in the middle of a fvcking firefight and he'll **** his pants

Ever spent a night in jail for no reason?

How 'bout prison?
 

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Aboleo said:
Ever spent a night in jail for no reason?

How 'bout prison?
16 year olds dont go to prison. And yes ive spend a night in jail for fighting, doesnt mean I dont like them. Have you? I doubt they arrested you out of nowhere, threw you in the back of a squad car and drove you off to jail.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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